Ogle ogle ogle

I have had a perfectly reasonable exchange with Kailey about this. But you are overreacting. There is no need for this.

 

I struggle with this too and I use the 3 second rule but I try to look at their upper body instead bc the rest is a big trigger for me.

 

No, I don't believe I have. But I regret that you feel that "you all attacked me!" Sometimes, I have felt like that. But on reflection, I have come to realise that I wasn't in a good place when the comments were made and this affected how I 'heard' them. That will likely make little or no sense to you now, but I hope you will see it when you reconsider it later.

 

@Sun Bro
Trying too hard to sound smart? Is this what people who cannot provide rebuttals for actual arguments say these days?

 

The guy is upset, there is no need to stir things up @Zerg Prosecutor.

 

When I am upset I don't tell people to go rot.

 

Thank your lucky stars that you have never been that upset mate!

 

I can be how upset you want me to but I won't pretend that I lose the property of words during that period.
Being upset does not grant anyone anything.

 

And you assume all human beings are or should be the same as you?

 

I apologise for derailing your thread @Forte B. I hope later in the day I can message you about some practical ways to significantly reduce and manage your ogling habit, that I have found useful for negating fantasies. Sorry, I'm just not in the right head space to post just now.

 

Where did you get this impression from?
This is was not a matter of which ice-cream is better and me throwing a tantrum that he doesn't agree that the blackberries one is the best...
If you have an argument with your wife and she insults you I can come to you and say: come on bro do you expect her to be the same as you? How would you like that?

 

I do not understand what you are talking about. In any case, we are distracting from the purpose of this thread. Let's just leave it, OK?