Absolute loser. Is there any hope?

You are just frustrated. Read a good book on that it'll help lots. Look at it this way, you have a problem and you need a solution, to solve the problem you have to find the solution and mostly the only way is to acquire knowledge about it. I got few send me your email ID I can mail it to u. [email protected]. 21 days into it your doing awesome. Futures gonna be even better keep at it. You don't wanna go down that ugly way again, sitting in your room being a loser. get out in the public, meet people all types young, old, girls, guys. It'll improve your communication skills. Try not to look at women to gain anything from them, just watch how they act, stay with their movement without expecting anything. Feel the joy of flirting within you. Life is beautiful NoFap, keep at it bro. Victory is bound to be yours.

 

I think you're worrying a little too much man. One big thing I noticed about nofap was I originally did it to get laid.

Now, a year in, it's not about that. I'm not trying to get laid because you don't use sex to feel good about yourself, that's the same thing as porn. You don't need a girlfriend to feel good about yourself, in fact you shouldn't because you'll be bringing in a ton of baggage and dependency into that relationship that would only hurt it.

Just stay clean and learn how to be happy and love life. You're only a loser if you think you are. If you feel like your self-worth is contingent upon how many girls you've gotten then I believe you're doing this for the wrong reasons.

Happiness is a choice, you have to remember that much.

 

good post Anon hymous (so I'm not writting the advice twice)

By the way, when I was younger I was in a similar situation as you.
I could have had nearly any girl that I wanted... but I had serious psicological, personal and family problems, moreover I never understood quite well the behavior of the people of my age.

Along the years, with hard work on my part, I have improved a lot, and now I am 28... I'ts not late for me, but I don't care have sex or not (because I did a NoFap training) and I don't really care many more things

I just feel free is there anything better?

 

that's not good man, I passed over this stage aswell (at the university)

What I did was precisely seat in the class lessons next to girls if was possible. Just paying attention to the lesson, but next to other person, and that way I educated the body that there is no problem about phisical nearby (or contact).

If you have the possibility would be a good idea having gymnastics or martial arts lessons, because it allows you to have phisical contact with people (if are man or women is the same) on an "organized" and "regulated" way, so your body will feel more confortable because there is a "logical reason" for having the contact.

And any outdoor team sport helps aswell, on a more indirect way, but it helps.

...I hope it helps

 

Dominated by fear is really no way to life ...