What are YOUR triggers?

Any kind of girl-on-girl imagery (which is the kind of stuff I mainly watched), which seems to crop up in all sorts of things these days (music videos, tv shows, movies). Have to work real hard to avoid relapsing if I see that kind of thing

 

Oh god this. I can barely even stand to watch some music videos some times.

 

Pictures of older women (35-50), don't have to be nude etc.

 

Everything is a trigger! I mean literally I get triggered so easily know . Maybe it's because I have gone two weeks without PMO but I am too sensitive to basic things.

Literally skin showing triggers me at times, tight clothes on a woman, talking or even sitting next to a woman (she doesn't have to be hot or beautiful to trigger me, but she also cannot be below 'average' in my own personal preference). It's so bad and I wish this goes away.

 

I have lots of triggers that lead me to porn. Some of them include: depression, stress, half naked men, boredom, dirty images in my mind, and simply feeling stimulated to M. Just got to keep trying.

 

Usually it's a beautiful female body, naked, in lingerie or in some sexy clothes. Cleavages do a hell of job. Also I used visualization and phantasies and many more.

 

Tight clothing that reveal the figure of the woman, its probably worst for me than seeing the woman naked as that makes my mind fantasize and objectify her wondering what she looks like without the clothing. ( I SUPPOSE its that unknown element that mystery aspect that arouses me the most, i absolutely hate/love it) - I hate it! Revealing clothing, cleavage, showing too much skin are probably my biggest triggers. Lets not make then 'triggers' as a trigger emphasizes some kind of power above our will, and it shouldn't have to be that, we should and can make those 'triggers' be just everyday things we don't have to give them that power, its all bout 'rewiring our minds' we should just see things for what they are and not let them have the power and control on our will/minds that we give them. WE CAN DO IT, WE JUST HAVE TO TRY AND PERSIST ! VICTORY IS WITHIN YOU! IT IS WITH YOU!

 

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