How to deal with her sex past

I believe that you need to speak to her about this. I was a virgin before I met girlfriend of 1 and a half years. She had only been with one other, but I can still relate to feeling inadequate. It made me scared, anxious even, to approach sex within a worthy manner.

Talk to her bub. If she likes you enough, she will understand. You don't know until you try. Stay strong and confident when speaking to her. Tell her exactly what you are worried about and really go into detail about all of it. If she acts uninterested or bored, just.......she's not good for you bub. She will just break your heart in the end.

Wondeful job with your 73 days and all of the progress you have made. If you would like to talk more, don't hesitate to pm me sometime. Peace brother

 

She loves you right now so it doesn't matter what her past is like. I had a few bf before my husband and he was a virgin and guess what? He was the best lover I ever had! The past doesn't matter and maybe she can teach you a trick or two! Try not to take it too serious and accept her unconditionally as a flawed human being.

 

Every sinner has a future, every saint has a past. There is nothing to be gained by this sort of discussion, and I wish I could send you back in a time machine to avoid it in the first place. But now that the news is out, you're going to have to do your best to leave the past in the past. As @Limeaid says, she's with you now and not with any of those other guys. If you love her, then make the most of the present. If you focus on the past, you'll lose her -- not because of other men she's been with, but because you couldn't get past your own insecurities. Is she worth the fight? Sounds like it.

 

What a huge compliment to you! She has had other lovers but chose you! That should give you confidence. My wife had dozen or so partners before me (she is very beautiful and women have all the opportunities and they call the shots). I had only one other partner before her and it was a 3 year relationship. Hers where usually short relationships. Well guess what, I was the only partner she ever had that could consistently give her an orgasm and via PVI as well. Personalities that get along and with a great sex life equals 28 years of a great marriage! So take this as a confidence boost and show her how awesome you are and prove that she made the right decision.

 

Dump her.

 

You must be new here!

 

I've been here longer than you.

 

You ever notice how all white knights write in the same moronic way? Don't listen to these idiots, if your gut tells you that this woman did something wrong or is treating you unfairly then why would you want to spend the rest of your life with her? So what if she "chose" you, you have your own choices to make.

 

Than you should know better, brother. Forgiveness is the key to peace at heart.

 

You should dump her. Bro

 

YAY the women haters showed up!!

 

Nice guys maybe?

 

And it's man enough to dump a girl just because she has a sexual history. I wonder what if the roles were reversed?

 

If women feel second best to porn what makes them think their husbands wouldn't feel second best to the men they had no strings attached hookups with in their early 20s?

 

The problem is that men and women are different. They are opposites. Quit playing dumb.

And yes, women with long sexual histories are more likely to cheat. You're asking us to commit our entire lives to these women.

 

This is going nowhere fast. Who knew there were so many "bros" here? Ah, well. Live and learn, guys. Live and learn.

 

Hmmm I have forgiven my husband for his past sexual transgressions. So shouldn't he forgive mine? You are holding women on a pedestal here. Women are not perfect and they make mistakes.

Good luck finding your virgin bride.