Ejaculation in 30-60 seconds

Yes it could be real.

As you stop masturbating, you don't have the "practice" Of learning how you feel, how sensitive you are, and how to control your arousal.

Also, the more you go NoFap, the more you will have a build up in testosterone (especially for the young guys).

So when you have sex, you are more likely to have your body wanting to ejaculate even if you don't want to.

 

Potentially it could, if someone decide to stop all self-pleasure all together.
Think about it, if someone was playing basketball and stop all together to play and to think about it, there is few chances that he will get better at it.

Is stopping watching porn good? Yes of course, especially if you have an addiction.

Is stopping masturbation gonna improve your PE problems? I don't think so in many cases. Two reasons, 1)you don't masturbate so you don't know your arousal scale and how to control your pleasure. And 2) If you don't masturbate = build up of testosterone + semen = more likely to ejaculate quickly in the hypotheses of a sexual encounter (it is worth noting that a lot of guys here who stop porn and masturbation have wet dreams, mechanism of the body to let go the excess).

 

I can only share my own experience. After starting noFap my wife told me that very often I took too long in bed. She says that about 5-8 minutes is perfect for her, and we were regularly going at least 15. I think I was lasting longer because I was MO'ing so often that I was somewhat desensitized.

After doing NoFap for a while I noticed that I would cum much more quickly (and much more powerfully). Usually about 3-4 minutes, though.

The only way I've been able to achieve a happy medium is to have sex frequently. If we are doing it 2-3 times a week then I don't get overly horny and finish early when we are making love, but I also am not overly drained like I was when I would PMO.

 

I actually identify with your challenges here.

I don’t do the 60 sec thing but I think I could if I were to lose myself in the moment.

I have long periods without sexual consistency. I actually call it becoming a Virgin again.

It’s like your body reboots to factory settings.

Probably the one trick I learned is to tell yourself you did NOT orgasm.

I have been able to do multiple orgasms this way.

You know when you first start to ejaculate with each pump of semen you feel awesome?

Well when you are about to pump just use a “panic “ button and think other stuff. Or pull out and do oral. Also you can squeeze the head.

Also, you can start talking ... words can be great distractions.

My goal is 40+ min.
My brother shared his wife can’t take more than 7 min.

I find once you have the first orgasm it’s easier to go longer and longer too.

 

Perfect practice makes it perfect! I was the same, long period of time without making love = 3 minutes max. When I was making love regularly, my stamina increased a lot and quickly.

Yeap, every women is different. Some likes it long, some fast, some wild, some sensual...

Great goal! Some tao books and some sex educators advice to pause after 20 min of having an erection, I should do more research on that...

 

lol, i dare you all to try to last longer having more than 100 days no-PM streak.

I have already had PE before starting this streak. Now its 10x worse. When i feel im about to ejaculate with a woman , even if i pause 15 sec before , there is no way in hell i can control it.

 

I find that mental conditioning helps. Find some 'neutral' scenes that you can mentally invoke to cool down without stopping. Mine is a scene when i was young out on a baseball field. Try to fully envision the scene, the heat on your skin, the smell of the air, etc. The more fully you can remember the scene the more effective it will be. This basically can 'reset' your arousal level if done right and dramatically increase how long you last. I think it works because memory is tied into the limbic system the same way arousal is, so you basically overwrite the arousal forcefully with a memory.

 

I find controlled breathing during intercourse to be really very helpful!

When you are thrusting, be sure to control your breath. When you feel you are approaching ejaculation, take a deep breath and slow the thrust.

Also it’s easier to have better intercourse if you focus on the woman and give her orgasms. The stress of performing well during inter course is gone. She got what she wants. That translates to better ejaculatory control.

I also contract my penis very hard (PC muscle) when I was approaching ejaculation in intercourse. It worked! I was surprised.

It is a game changer for me.

 

I guess we shouldn't compare Ejac to M with penetrating intercourse. U should be worried if that time happened during PIC.

 

I agree! It’s very different between M and vaginal intercourse. We can’t compare that

 

The Q is
PE during M is related to ED during PIC????
Cuz someone really experienced that.

 

When I want to last longer and feel I'm getting close, I do math, multiplications mostly. It seems to help me, not always but most of the times, also its a balance thinking to long I might lose erection to short I can come faster then I want. It takes a bit a practice and every time is bit different to balance mind thinking of other things and enjoying the sex.

 

PIC?

 

Penetrating intercourse

 

Sex is like any other human endeavor. If you want to get good at it, you have to practice. At one point I had the same experience you are describing. I had to learn to calm down and also to pay attention to my partner and see how we could blend our feeling together with better technique. Most men are "slam, bam, thank you mam" artists or "findem, feelem, fuckem, and forgettem" artists and are to self involved. The way to calm down and learn more for yourself is simple.

It's all in the foreplay. Lots of it. Ever heard that word??? Most men think it's a tennis move. She will suck you dry later on for that. Take about 10 or 15 minutes massaging every part of her body and excite hr. You will relax both of you, and learn how she reacts to your touch. In the mean time you relax yourself from this and can concentrate mentally when you enter her. As time goes on you should get better and extend your O. Also, you want to promote as much sensitivity of touch to each of your sexual organs as possible. So...

This is important...contraception is up to her. I refuse to use any kind of a it. There are several way she can protect herself from pregnancy and most woman I have been with prefer to protect themselves. I have had many woman ask me to cum inside of them. They want the feeling of that too. You should be able to work up to several minutes of sustaining yourself before completion, and that is even without adding things like her kegel to prolong you. So that's the basics; now relax and enjoy yourself man. My $.02.

 

I have a similar problem, but I find stopping just before climax helps me to load up within a few minutes and the next round is much longer.
Mentally, it's super important to not focus on your own pleasure as you would with M. I focus solely on my wife's pleasure coz I know I am much easier to satisfy.
We need to train ourselves to not seek the high of O but also enjoy the journey with our partner. My thoughts anyway, I am still working on it.

 

When I masturbate and feel like it's getting close to blowing there is a spot right underneath the cockhead that I press and "hold" it for a few seconds or how ever long it takes for it to go down. Which, it usually does. Then you can resume masturbation

 

Is that where your name comes from ?

 

No. I honestly don't know how I came up with this name, lol