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The moment you get back control over your actions

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Aug 19, 2019.

  1. Aug 19, 2019 #1
    Deleted Account

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    I'm currently acting out my addiction day after day. But suddenly I realized: something in me expects me to PMO now but I don't need to do it. In fact I don't want to. So why should I do it? No, I won't.

    Do you guys know that moment?

    I'm not even saying that this means anything. My frustration seems to be much higher than my lust tonight. So it wasn't hard to say 'no'.
    Nevertheless it is a good decision and it feels good. Somehow I came to my senses. Instead of surrender myself completey to the addiction I chose a path to more control and common sense. My chances have slightly increased. Today was better than yesterday. I've proved that I have some willpower left. Some positivity. Some spirit.
     
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  2. Aug 19, 2019 #2
    Ogikubo

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    I understand, I think. My view of that something in us that compels us to PMO is just a sick little man who has a small space in our heads, but his voice is big. I imagine him as someone who did have power over me. But now, I have the power. He wants us to PMO for his own pleasure, not ours.
    I now will loudly tell him to fuck off. I will not let that creep, that pervert, that sicko have any more control over me. His voice is quieter now, and he sometimes bangs on the door. I tell him to fuck off and he's quiet again.
     
    Ogikubo, Aug 19, 2019
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  3. Aug 19, 2019 #3
    The_Simple_Fool

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    Everytime a strong urge come. We need to retaliate. Better solution is change the environment. As we consider the urge as a voice, we need to put another voice stronger than that.
    Our GOALS, FAMILY and WHAT THE PORN DID SO FAR
     
    The_Simple_Fool, Aug 19, 2019
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