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Is tinder full of prostitutes???

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Dat95, Jul 31, 2019.

  1. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    Just made my new account on tinder cause I Heard it was a lot of fun! Started surfing! Holy shit:
    asses everywhere. Asses in panties, thongs, bikinies and shits...
    Are these prostitutes showing off the merchandise or it is just the norm these days??? I mean I haven’t been following trends or anything (Instagram? The hell is that???) so I may have miss something!

    Also I am really looking to improve my tinder profile (or any dating site) so could use some pointers from the vets here! Thanks in advance!!!
     
  2. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    Hmm that seems very likely. Just 10 mins in and the app already ask me for money to view who liked my profile
     
  3. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    Is there any way to distinguish between the reals and the fakes???
     
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  4. Depends where you are when you start looking. In my home state is really boring ppl who think tinder is for finding a regular guy; while the guys use it to find hookups.
    I’ve used it traveling and some places it’s mostly real escorts. Not the crap you see in the apps that are bots or charge 50$ to see their stupid naked pics.
     
  5. FormerFapaholic

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    Ask yourself this. Why are you on Tinder?
    It's a complete waste of time. Get yourself out there and meet girls.
     
  6. Dat95

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    I guess I want to learn how to text with girls, how to interest a lady through text, how to setup a date, get laid, be in love... stuffs like that!
    I think you’re right tho, it’s the personal, face-to-face communication that matters. I intend to improve that as well, just don’t really know where to start, thus tinder.
     
  7. FormerFapaholic

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    Cheers dude.
     
  8. FormerFapaholic

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    Yeah, you're more than a likely to build a connection with someone face-to-face rather than via text. But also a better one too. By getting to know them and ask questions about them. Engage in conversation. You know, things like that.

    But it's great you know you need to -- and want to -- improve. Where to start can be through investing time in activities and hobbies, for example. That's somewhere you can meet girls. Way better than Tinder, dude. But do that because YOU want to for your health and/or wellbeing, as you get joy out of the activity/hobby and not the girl. Not for the intention of getting laid. Women can sense that from a mile off.
     
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  10. Beingcowboyishard

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    If you are looking for a life partner focus on your relationship with god
    God will never give a woman who is ugly to thouse who trust him
     
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  11. In Spain I got lucky, no asses for now
     
  12. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    Well Im atheist so dont know about that :))
     
  13. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    Yeah, right now texting really feels off putting to me, I like deep personal convo about stuffs! But maybe because I still suck at it! Idk lets see xD
     
  14. b-v-o-y

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    There are real people on Tinder. Just keep looking.
    I'll answer your other question about improving your profile as well.
    It's all in the bio. Look past the exterior. If you see a smoking hot girl that has absolutely nothing in her bio, could be for several reasons:
    Fake account
    She's there for the ego boost and seeing how many people like her (some girls will straight up put that on their bio)
    or
    She's a real person but doesn't care enough to put effort into her bio (so she might not put effort into you if you by some chance match)

    Also be realistic with yourself. How attractive do you consider yourself or how attractive do other people consider you?
    Most couples (not all) look very similar in attractiveness levels and this is because generally you are more attracted to people who are as attractive as you.
    So if you are like a 5 out of 10 but see a girl that's a 10 out of 10 you probably won't be matching with her because she's interested. It's a bit harsh but it's true, but at the end of the day nobody cares if a model isn't attracted to you. There will always be SOMEBODIES (PLURAL) attracted to you.

    I started using tinder about 3 months ago and I never thought I would. For me it always had that stigma of "oh, anyone who uses it is desperate to be in a relationship."
    Not at all. I've grown more comfortable and open about telling people that I used it.
    It's not a waste of time. Our society has changed. Technology has made it both easier and harder for you to date - you have way more options than back then, which means that people are more picky. Girls don't need to rely on guys to be making the money anymore to support their families.
    With dating apps you have more options but you'll have to eliminate a lot of people that aren't worth your time.

    Don't get discouraged if you don't match with everyone. Keep looking. You just need to match with 1 person.
    It is true though that you don't get that connection/chemistry/idea of who someone really is through text.
    But if you want to online date, that's the first step.
    Talk to a girl. Ask questions. How do you do this? Talk about something in her bio, instead of just saying "hey, what's up?" (a lot of girls/guys do this and it's boring. People will usually ignore this.) You want to set yourself apart from all of the other boring, generic people.
    See if she asks questions too (to show that she's actually interested in finding out more about you).
    Be prepared to get ghosted by girls who lose interest after a while or girls who will match with you but not say anything
    There's no timeline or specific time for you to get her number. If you feel like you guys have a good connection and you'd like to get to know her more, ask for her number and keep talking.
    See where it goes, and maybe ask her on a date.

    I'm not an expert but these are some of the things that I've learned these past few months. Hope that helped.
     
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  15. Beingcowboyishard

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    Why you choose to be atheist??
    God is not judging you through your sins and he wants to set you free from this addiction
     
  16. Dat95

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    Thanks mate. My first match ghosted me after a while, my second are not replying. Off to a not so good start but I figure it’ll get better eventually. Gotta get used to the rejection right???
    Im a follower of Science and the scientific method, plus I found my spiritual enlightenment through meditation and self-realization. My “bible” right now is the book “The way of the peaceful warrior”.
    Other ideologies and theologies still feel foreign, and at the moment I deem it not beneficial to my growth! But in time all of these are very likely to change.
    What will be, will be. Right?
     
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  18. Infrasapiens

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    If a woman there shows interest in you, it is probably a overweight sweaty 50 year old basement dweller in his underwear laying on a pile of anime body pillows.

    Named Chuck.
     
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  19. Dat95

    Dat95 Fapstronaut

    Or worse...an actual woman xD
    *panic mode on*
     
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    Named Chuck.
     

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