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Women coming out of nowhere while on a long non ejaculatory streak?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by briguy71, Jun 22, 2019.

  1. ItsInTheBag

    ItsInTheBag Fapstronaut

    Well, I wish it were so easy with the Loto - pray and get'er done :). In a way, this is similar to what some preachers promise today the gullible.

    However, in this case - having an "overnight" transplant of organs - this is the best explanation I could come up with. To each its own.

    This is but one of the ways I was convinced He exists.
     
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  2. So you didn't know it, but inadvertently told me something about what is going to happen. The Lord has his ways... :D

    Never lose hope.

    True, His plan might be different from what we imagine as "good" outcome.
     
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  3. Okay you believe, let be like that
    I have my own believes
    peace
    :)
     
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  4. ItsInTheBag

    ItsInTheBag Fapstronaut

    That's the spirit - I really appreciate an open discussion. We have other battles in common to focus on :).
     
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  5. ItsInTheBag

    ItsInTheBag Fapstronaut

    He truly has.

    Never losing hope. Thanks!
     
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  6. Di.Do.555

    Di.Do.555 Fapstronaut

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    I think it is real. It happened to me twice once when i was on a 14 days streak and one when i was on a week streak.
    The second one is strange because this woman never gave me a look before. That day she looked at me in a very flirtatious way.
     
  7. How old are you?
     

  8. I had a similar exp whwn I was in Canada. At that time I was 17 and never fapped in my entire life until 18.

    I even remember a girl peeking at me when I was dressing inside the shower butof a dorm. I noticed her and she left. I never talked about it with her.

    But heres thr thing. When i turned 18, I started to fap every day until I turned like 19. She always kept her distance frm me and was grossed by me.
     
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  9. briguy71

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    48... Looking back at what I posted perhaps/ likely it just was coincidence... I met a woman last night for a coffee and she told me this morning she didn't feel any chemistry.. And shes right I didn't feel it either... Im on 16 days of not ejaculating and usually after 2 weeks I am fairly blissful and happy so Im not bothered by what she told me..Sometimes in the past when I met a woman off a online dating site and she would give me the " Youre a nice guy but I didn't feel any chemistry" I would sometimes see a escort.. I have no intention of doing that today..
     
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  10. Damage is not permanent, the brain is neuroplastic and can rewire itself. Semen retention slows down the activity in the amygdala and enhances activity in other parts of the brain, this is why we feel calmer and more confident while on a nofap streak.
     
  11. Hmm. How many times have you relapsed? Also, did you fap every week, every 2 weeks?
     
  12. stoneyman22

    stoneyman22 Fapstronaut

  13. Gladiatori

    Gladiatori Fapstronaut

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    I really dont think 20 years of P can be completely reversed =(. There are penalties for this hedonism; bbbut you can reduce it greatly and is sufficient with discipline.

    Plastic neurons yes... but the memories and associations never go away totally.
     
  14. Memories obviously don’t go away, but the brain can be completely rewired. The penalty is the pain you have through withdrawal and the mental issues while your were doing it not knowing you are harming yourself. No point in believing you can’t reverse something that you learned from.
     
  15. Angus McGyver

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    Although I have gained more attraction from women since I stopped PMO:ing, I have never ever been approached by and gotten introduced to them just out of the blue (now, I'm roughly 520 days into NoFap). But I can't deny I have received some curious looks during the time.
     
  16. briguy71

    briguy71 Fapstronaut

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    these are my streaks since April of this year.. 8...6..27..1..21..1...19 1..1... 18
     
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  17. How old are you? Maybe age is a factor. Improve the other factors.
     
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  18. Angus McGyver

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    I am 31 at the moment and might look a few years younger but even if I was 35+, they wouldn't come out approaching me from here and there. I don't see how an increasing age alone would improve it and make it happen all of a sudden.
     
  19. FrankMorris

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    I used to get sexual transmutation to work. Is it a case of thinking of seduction, and then thinking again, redirecting your thoughts and engaging a creative business plan.
     
  20. this honestly. if this is some magic spell for women it's only for the ugly duckling kinds. so this case has been solved. close thread.
     
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