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90-Day Challenge

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Deleted Account, Mar 19, 2019.

  1. Pinescone

    Pinescone Fapstronaut

    Day 16/90.
    Feeling vulnerable. Gonna eat something and go walk at the park. It's not worth slipping up!
     
  2. Paul69

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    29 days, nearly 0ne third of this challenge. I will be checking out for a few days as I am going on a business trip.
     
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  3. Dbot

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    Reflecting on a party I was at at the weekend. Realising that I was connecting well with people because I was willing to be vulnerable and imperfect and 'as I am', rather than wearing a mask of 'who I think you'll like'. Seems this invites people to meet me 'as they are' too, and that's priceless. I think we each carry our own load of loneliness. Porn for me was always a source of extra shame, something else to hide. I feel that burden lift each day and transform into awareness and compassion. I am worthy of deep intimacy and mutual care. And so are you.
     
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  4. Pinescone

    Pinescone Fapstronaut

    17/90
    fully committed
     
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  5. Dbot

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    Three weeks down!! Woo hoo!!
     
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  6. Pinescone

    Pinescone Fapstronaut

    18/90
    Starting to notice some benefits. Mainly, having better social interactions with people.
     
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  7. Pinescone

    Pinescone Fapstronaut

    19/90
    I have the day off work. It's up to me, slip into old pathetic patterns. Or build on my nofap success and get some shit accomplished.
     
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  8. Day 0/90
    I was ashamed by myself because i was easly manipulated by my mind. I need to calm down and focus on my path.
     
  9. roughjourney

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  10. Paul69

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    34 days. Trip went well, no temptations
     
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  11. ctr

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    30/90
     
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  12. Pinescone

    Pinescone Fapstronaut

    22/90
    Past three week mark, Wich was a big mental hurdle. It wasn't easy, I found new temptations, and vulnerable behaviors.

    I have heard people say make it 30 days and reevaluate. I'm starting to get that now. I'm finding new weaknesses and new methods to deal with them. Gotta stay vigilant, stay smart.
     
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  13. roughjourney

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  14. Paul69

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  15. Dbot

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    25/90. After some days where the temptation was strong it seems to have weakened quite a bit. Wild camping in the highlands seems to help, and good time with friends. It seems perhaps that the energy behind looking at porn has somewhat been channeled in to increased habitual facebook activity. Currently exploring how to harness that and channel it in more creative ways. Also I'm thinking how I might have a mini celebration at the half way point of 45 days, something to mark that point, reflect on my learning so far and motivate myself for the next 6 weeks.
     
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  16. Pinescone

    Pinescone Fapstronaut

    24/90
    Urges have been strong. Resistance has been stronger.
     
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