I'll start with 7 days

Hi guys,
44 yo male living in France who needs a bit of help, here.
This is my first time on Nofap, but not my first attempt at quitting porn.
I've had several successful periods of abstaining from porn in the past, the longest one being 30 days when I subscribed to "30 days of discipline" from the outstanding boldanddetermined blog.

I am tired.

Tired of exhausting myself first thing in the morning - and, these days, up to 4 times a day - to images and videos that pop up anytime I close my eyes, now.

Tired of barely being attracted to my stunningly hot wife, who is ready to go 4 times a day and can't understand why we don't have much sex despite having only being living under the same roof for over a year now.

Tired of wasting so much energy that should be channeled towards creative endeavors such as the self-help blog I've decided to turn into a source of significant revenues.

Tired if this pollution.

But I know I can free myself from this trap.
I just need your help.

So I'll start with 7 days : no porn and no masturbation.
Orgasms will only be allowed with my wife.

Once those 7 days are reached, I'll work towards 90 days.

I know I can do this.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you for your support, Nofap.

Force et Lumière

 

Good to hear we're in the same boat.
Let's do this, mate.

 

So likes do attracts likes, right ?
Congratulations on your progress mate
And thank you for your message.
As a freelance writer, I spend 8hours+ each day in front of a computer - internet is a big part of my daily life.
Looks like I have to use willpower, here.
But like I read on another Fapstronaut post: "change happens when the cost of not changing is higher than the effort to make change happen itself"
See you on the other side.

 

Annnnnd relapse.
As soon as I reached the 7th day, I went back to P and M.

I'll still count this as a success since I managed to reach my initial goal.
Also, this week of abstinence and the shift in energy it yielded allowed me to better appreciate how bad an impact this trap has on my well-being.

Now I need to set a new goal and reach it.