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Here comes a new challenger!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Gigi13, Jun 24, 2019.

  1. Gigi13

    Gigi13 Fapstronaut

    Hey everybody, I'm Gigi and I just began this journey.
    You may ask yourself: “and why are you here?“.
    Lets just say I'm lacking performance, so it may be what you call PIED (hope I used that right).
    So I directly start with the hard mode and hope I can reach the 90th day.
    But I also have a little question: HOW do I know that I'm getting better, without breaking the streak?
    Or do I have to have sex to see if something changed?
    Thanks guys and let's do this!
     
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  2. Blinky Bill

    Blinky Bill New Fapstronaut

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    Hi Gigi!
    I'm also quite new on this forum but I've been involved with NoFap on Reddit for quite some time.
    I've heard that PIED is quite a common result of PMO, and that there are many people in the same situation as you. Luckily, most of the stories I've read seem to have a happy ending with the user recovering.
    As for your question, I'd suggest to try get to 90 days (it might not happen on the first attempt) and do whatever comes natural. I wouldn't purposely seek someone just to test out if you're cured, but let it flow naturally. There's no way to 'test' your recovery without breaking the streak, so you'll just have to give it a shot. Avoid orgasm for the 90 days, and then see what happens from there. At this point, there's not much else you can do other than stay determined and better your life in all aspects.
    I hope this helped!
     
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  3. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    - You can set up your day counter here
    - You can find the forum usage guide here
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    - You can also find a guide to the basics of rebooting here
    - If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to alife free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  4. Gigi13

    Gigi13 Fapstronaut

    Thank you very much Blinky Bill for your kind reply.
    Hearing that other people did this with good results gives me hope.
    I mean I will try to “delete“ P and M and just keep the O in my life.
    90 days is a long time, but my willpower will win this battle.
    So first the 3 months and then I'll see whats next.
    It will be hard, but I don't want to let porn ruin my sexual life.
     
  5. cool_fresh_88

    cool_fresh_88 Fapstronaut

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    Very good Gigi, you will go through ups and downs; or you might go directly to 90 days hard mode without any struggle. It's different for everybody and every life situation. BUT, definitely you will notice changes in your life, in your feeling and your behaviour. Just let no pmo do it's work and see the results. Experience them by yourself. Here are some of the common benefits of nofap/nopmo, which I can confirm:
    - More Self-confidence
    - Better Stamina
    - Deeper voice
    - More discipline
    - Alpha Male
    - Happiness
    - Better sleep quality/even with less sleep you feel good
    And if you do 90+ day no PMO, you might feel like an invincible beast. You have gone through so much, that you feel great.

    Glad you give it a try.
    PS: you mentioned that you might still do "O". As you go through the journey and you collect more experience, sooner or later you will encounter the term "semen retention" and you'll realize that if you want to feel like a beast, you HAVE to cut O also. You need to go God mode and do not PMO at all. Even in your dreams you should deny O to avoid wet dream.
    Check the quote of the famous boxer David Haye: Even in my sleep — if there are girls all over me in my dream, I say to them, "I’ve got a fight next week, I can’t do anything. I can’t do it.”
     
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  6. cool_fresh_88

    cool_fresh_88 Fapstronaut

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    Very good Gigi, you will go through ups and downs; or you might go directly to 90 days hard mode without any struggle. It's different for everybody and every life situation. BUT, definitely you will notice changes in your life, in your feeling and your behaviour. Just let no pmo do it's work and see the results. Experience them by yourself. Here are some of the common benefits of nofap/nopmo, which I can confirm:
    - More Self-confidence
    - Better Stamina
    - Deeper voice
    - More discipline
    - Alpha Male
    - Happiness
    - Better sleep quality/even with less sleep you feel good
    And if you do 90+ day no PMO, you might feel like an invincible beast. You have gone through so much, that you feel great.

    Glad you give it a try.
    PS: you mentioned that you might still do "O". As you go through the journey and you collect more experience, sooner or later you will encounter the term "semen retention" and you'll realize that if you want to feel like a beast, you HAVE to cut O also. You need to go God mode and do not PMO at all. Even in your dreams you should deny O to avoid wet dream.
    Check the quote of the famous boxer David Haye: Even in my sleep — if there are girls all over me in my dream, I say to them, "I’ve got a fight next week, I can’t do anything. I can’t do it.”
     
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  7. Gigi13

    Gigi13 Fapstronaut

    Hey cool_fresh_88!
    I really hope that something changes and I can see or feel the change.
    Doing this without any change at all would be my biggest fear.
    But I will never know if I never try, right?
    Maybe I will start a journal too.
    And don´t get me wrong: I will do those 90 days without PM and O.
    But after that, sooner or later it will be PM only.
    Me Neanderthal, me like sex :D
    Oh and thanks for your reply!
     
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  8. MrMufasa

    MrMufasa Fapstronaut

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    I say have sex again after day 90, you'll do great my guy. Also I started today. See you at day 90 bro.
     
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  9. Gigi13

    Gigi13 Fapstronaut

    Thank you MrMufasa.
    We can and we will make it!
    See you after 90 days.
     
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  10. MrMufasa

    MrMufasa Fapstronaut

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    I'll make sure to tag you again on day 90. Big ups from England, Take care bro.
     

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