My so far dissapointing 30 days mark..

Hello dreamer, I am in a similar situation (quite heavy fapper) and from what I've understood it might take a little longer for us to see results.
So hang in there, one day at a time

 

Hello dreamer this is only day 6 for me.what usually causes me to deceide i wanna stop fapping to porn atleast is the disgust in myself. But this time was because my gf and i had an argument because basically i was a robot to her and wasnt very loving or caring. I know its because of the porn and like you after sex i would still not be satisfied and go do the dirty. Keep going would love to see day 30 like yourself congrats your feelings will come back.

 

Keep with it homie. I'm there with you too; I'm 38 and started jerking around age 13 or so, but had a pretty bad addiction.

Something to keep in mind is that you're healed when you're healed. Be prepared to go beyond 90 days if necessary. I'm resolved to myself that I'm going to have to go way beyond that, but I actually have a peace and comfort in that knowing the payoff will be worth it.

 

Great work! Thirty days is a long time when you’ve had a long term habit. Unfortunately thirty days won’t make thirty years disappear. But isn’t your life much better today than it was thirty days ago? You may be experiencing problems you’d wish would go away but you’ve had great success with a huge problem, PMO. I know I use PMO to mask other problems. For me giving up PMO doesn’t solve those problems, but it does allow me to solve them. I couldn’t solve them mired in PMO. Again congratulations.

 

Sounds normal, plus it seems that the longer the issue, the longer the recovery.
Good news though! Energy is up, and you're taking on new positive habits.
Thanks for posting.

 

It is amazing how all the feelings of anxiety and sadness eventually leaves when you stay clean. You will get there bro. After Many years of addiction you cannot recover so fast like that. You will get there. Just put everything behind you, have a strategy to win and wait for results. I have been there. Everything gets better, your mood. Your penis and even your health.

 

Don't worry, I was in a flatline for the first 43 days and appreciated it, because it made it much easier to prevent relapse than now. My flatline also came with high energy, which has now gone back into my libido. I actually like it more the other way, but I'm faithful that brain and body will find their balance, as I continue to recover. You will recover, too. God bless you!

 

This is very normal! Just keep going and you'll be alright. I think you just need some more time. You can do this! Please don't give up! I believe in you! May God Bless you my friend!!

 

it takes time. some people feel better by 30 days, for others it might be 5 months.

 

You're getting there, it takes time. This doesn't happen overnight. Be more positive, and yes, start meditating. It's gonna improve, don't fret.

 

You been doing Nofap for 4 years and your longest streak has been at 30 days, am I correct?

 

do the dab like Whiz Khalifa

 

30 streak good job man....

 

10+ years of spiking your dopamine and watching porn won’t be healed in 30 days. Same with how you didn’t get to where you are now in a short period of time.

 

Real healing takes longer.

 

Stages of Nofap reboot.

 

Nice thread, lots of encouraging and sound advice, it all rings true for me, I was a chronic pmo'er too so it's gonna take time, personally I'm undoing a 35 year habit, but that's ok, like I read elsewhere I'm not so much looking at 30, 90 or 365 days.. (even though they are brilliant achievements) ..I'm never going back to that prison

 

Great to hear it man, keep going