When The Wife Does NOT Understand

Watching porn is not betrayal? Really? What planet are you on?

How dare you say this when there are SO's of addicts on here suffering because of this?

 

Probably - I have yet to respond to something else I saw today which is of this same mindset...

How would he feel if his partner didn't show any interest in him and gave their attention to a actor in a porn video instead? And then tried to justify it by saying it's not a betrayal.

 

The entire logical purpose for a sexual relationship is for sexual attention. Women who are not getting this from their partners have essentially been relegated to becoming her adult partner's free Mommy. Insinuating that insecurity is the only reason for her to be upset by a sexless relationship is irrational.

 

Dont feed the troll.

 

Not a troll. Boths sides of a relationships have issues. It's not one sided mate. Think.

 

Bubba all I can say is that after 27 years you manned up and found the courage to face your demons. What makes you an even bigger man is the fact that you opened up to her that all this time you had a porn problem. You did this knowing that she would feel betrayed and wounded. Now she can't stop giving you fire for your mistakes, but she does see a new man in you. That alone makes the whole thing worth it. Now you have to resolve that the more she chastises you for your past life, the more you'll injure her with kindness. Yes she'll not be over it quickly, it WILL take some time, but in the end, time is all it will take. She'll heal and so will you. Just don't let go of the New Man you've become, no matter what.