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Its killing me... but i wanna do something about it

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Hanumesh Santhanam, Jun 23, 2019.

  1. Hey everyone!

    The last i dated was around 2 months ago. Thats when i realized i had Pied. Its been 21 days of nofap for me. The urges are manageable. I dont feel like watching porn. However, the loneloness has begun to hit me. And it hits hard on the weekends when I am generally free.

    Usually taking a shag was the best way of dealing with the loneliness. But now, after years of masturbation and porn and being the ultimate beta male, i now wanna get out and actually approach and talk to women. I want to try to flirt and do all the things I have not been doing.

    The problem is.... i dunno where and how to start. I do not drink so i do not know a lot about bars and clubs. I also feel many clubs here in Mumbai in India do not allow stag entry. The other option is that I just talk to women anywhere. Starbucks, library any place... its just about approaching and making conversation.

    Any advice for me?
     
  2. elevate

    elevate Fapstronaut

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    If you did have a girlfriend, what would you do throughout your life?

    What interests you? What type of people do you want to meet and where do they hang out? What community can you contribute to? Which people can you share struggles and victories with?

    People like to say bars and clubs, but the majority don't like clubs and bars.

    Meet people doing something you want to be doing on a consistent basis. Then you'll meet people on a regular basis that have similar interests.
     

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