I made it! Next up: PE

Nonononono.

Don’t watch porn again. Go to a doctor or something. But don’t fall into the addiction

Do you know about the coolidge effect?

 

If you have sex with the same person, every time you will last longer. Until you really have a medical problem. Maybe the girl would have feeled honored, that she made you cum through kissing.

Honestly when I read you title, i thought you mean Penis Enlargment.

Sorry for misunderstanding.

 

I talked with a doctor about my addiction. He never watched Porn or mastrubated. Relly, he never did.

He told me that porn inducates not real sex.

So you want to hold as much as you want, isn’t true. Real sex includes an errection that holds from 10-15 minutes and not three hours.

So. If you don’t watch porn for 200 days, did not have sex for 120 days and not PMO, you are super sensitive know. what do you think how many man will come within a minute with a pretty girl?

Nearly all man, except myself of course

 

I suffer from PE like you buddy, from exactly your reasons you wrote.
Sometimes kissing my wife make me want to cum in my pants.
Porn WILL NOT help you overcome the issue, porn gave us the PE and it will not cure us from it.
We need to be over the orgasm, we need to focus on having fun and connection to the person we are with her in the bed... once we really teach our body this method, maybe we can cure from PE.
PLEASE DONT WATCH PORN AGAIN

 

The cure for PE is usually masturbation, yeah. But don't forget - once an addict, always an addict. There's a whole stack of testimonials of guys who got as far as you or further only to fall back into the relapse cycle. I'm assuming that there's a relationship in question. How about simple honesty and "training" with her? Tell her that you've got this issue and go for it anyways. Doesn't matter if you fail, it might actually bring you closer and the next time you'll do better.

 

Most men last much longer the second time around. And the more you practice, the longer that first time will last.

 

No, this is so wrong.

Masturbation is NOT the cure to PE, it makes PE worse over time.

Yes, masturbating will make you last longer but that's just like rubbing anesthetic on your dick and calling PE cured. It's NOT a solution.

In the long run it will make you even more sensitive because when you have sex after masturbation your penis/body needs to tune itself to be more sensitive to feel something at all.

Yes, i agree. PE is a consequence of training to get an erection by flexing the muscles to keep blood inside the penis.

We literally learn to flex to get an erection, but it's the same flex that happens when we ejaculate.

I read a very interesting study where they said that PE and ED are on a continuum.

Basically, we have erection problems (can't get it up) and we subconsciously panic, start flexing the pc/bc muscles and we get that erection by squeezing the blood in and not letting the blood out.

It's basically like using an erection ring.

So the underlying cause of PE is actually ED.

edit: found the study, it's very interesting https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.1365-2605.2010.01059.x

 

Honestly man, if you haven't ejaculated in 166 days, it's going to happen pretty fast. Why don't you just tell her you've been retaining and probably won't last long the first time?

 

Keep going on nofap and tell your partner that you've been abstaining? That sounds like a good idea to me, it'll help alleviate the pressure to perform and I can't see her being upset that you've decided to save your energy for a partner rather than wasting it on porn or fantasy. I'd like to think that a girl would be flattered and fascinated by the idea that her boyfriend saves himself for her alone, especially in this era when the majority are obsessed with being as promiscuous as possible in many ways. Once you're comfortable with her and have gotten over the initial excitement (ie finished really quickly the first couple of times,) I think you'll find that you aren't a premature ejaculator at all.