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Resource Thread For PAs and SOs

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Hopefulgirl, Jun 2, 2019.

  1. EyesWideOpen

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    The Porn Myth: Exposing the Reality Behind the Fantasy of Pornography by Matt Fradd
     
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  6. Yes.
    (Head in my hands... nodding)
    Yes.
     
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  7. This is AMAZING! Thank you all for sharing these resources.
     
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  8. kropo82

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    For reminding yourself (the PA) why porn is so wrong for the world:
    Both are trigger-laden, so you need to be careful, but they both help us see the extraordinary damage porn does to the people in porn, and to everyone.

    When I started out trying to quit I found Confronting Your Spouse's Pornography Problem by Reid & Gray super useful (though one of the chapters is much weaker than the others). It gave me real insights into how wives feel about their partner's porn problem and what might happen if I failed to stop. Sadly out of print now.
     
  9. Hopefulgirl

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    These are the BEST videos that I have seen about betrayal trauma and repairing a marriage after lies and sexual infidelity/compulsive pornography use. There are many videos but all 100% worth the watch. My husband didn't start real recovery until he watched these. There are 20 some videos- THIS IS AN AMAZING RESOURCE!
    **WATCH THESE**
    https://davidwever.com/trust-after-betrayal-workshop-lesson-index/
     
    Last edited: Aug 1, 2019
  10. fuzzywaz

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    Replying to remember to come back to this later
    :)
     
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    I'm not married or a woman but I've been reading about betrayal trauma and the PA's wife's side of things in general. Genuinely fascinating, informative, and enlightening. Thanks for sharing this incredible stuff.
     
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  13. Queenie%Bee

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    please don’t forget to add SAD and TRAGIC to your list :)
     
  14. celery_tree

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    LOL, I did make it seem more positive than it is didn't I. It genuinely is sad and tragic.
     
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    From @alphazingersalsa :)
     

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