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17 year old trying to undo all of my problems

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by demon_slayer_asta9687, Jun 15, 2019.

  1. demon_slayer_asta9687

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    My name will be anonymous I am male, 17 years old and I will tell you a brief story about myself.

    I am currently in High School and I have been constantly watching porn and I have Exams in a few days and I don't know what to do with my life since it has been hard for me to exel in education and sports.

    Being busy almost every day I have to study and train but after getting beated up and not using my martial arts skills to defend myself or being hacked on instagram and being paranoid even though my account has been recovered (its a long story).

    Anyway I am pretty much trying to just stay out of porn since I have used it as a stress reliever. After masturbating for 2 years since grade 9 I have started feeling the after effects of it and developed stress, anxiety, and depression. After 1 year of facing these major problems I listed out I felt like my 16 year old self was not ready to mature properly.

    Now after being 17 I have been constantly reliving these problems and I have been willing to go and change to now go to NoFap and after failing my Literacy Test I have been forced to go to summer school since I last year went to summer school to retake Grade 9 math. I honestly hoped to God I would at least rest but I constantly feel awake like an insomniac.

    I may not make sense but I am trying to just control myself and be free from these shakles since I constantly take people's pain with me.

    My story is now on ths platform feel free to DM me if you want I hope other newbies like me get better over time.
     
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  2. Hello and welcome! :)

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  3. frogs2345

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    Good to see young people coming to this site early on. You can do this, and it is so much easier than if you had waited longer. Not saying it will be easy, but two years is a big difference from some of the guys on this site, myself included. Do not give up hope, do not lose faith that you will get to the other side.
     
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  4. Hey, welcome to NoFap! :D

    I'm also seventeen, and I've had a similar experience with porn. I've been struggling with depression and anxiety for years. It's a tough battle to fight, it wears on you. Just when I thought all hope was lost, I found NoFap. It took me a while before I actually joined the forums, though, and I wish I had done so sooner. It's already done a lot for me. I actually feel kind of human again. You might like to look at this post I made about what I've noticed from NoFap in the few No PMO (No Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm) streaks I've done so far, with a few of them having been before I officially joined NoFap.

    It sounds like you've definitely come to the right place. NoFap can be a great resource for those of us experiencing issues related to porn and masturbating. Even now, I've seen some pretty significant improvements in anxiety. I feel way less anxious than I did before I started NoFap. Sometimes we don't even know how much of an effect something has had on us until it's gone, and that's definitely the case with porn.

    I would recommend that you started a reboot log. Just pick a category based on your age, and start a new thread. That'll serve as your reboot log that you can reply to when you're ready to create an entry. It'll help you document your progress, motivate yourself, and serve as motivation for others on their NoFap journey. If you're having a hard time getting started with the log, you can look at the other logs for some ideas and inspiration! Plus, doing so might also provide you with some much needed motivation to push through and you could learn new things about NoFap.

    I recommend you look up a site called YourBrainOnPorn if you like to see the facts. It really helped me a lot to understand what porn was doing to me, and that it wasn't really that unheard of. Trust me, I know. Being a porn addict can make you feel like you're insane or a criminal, and can come with a lot of guilt. But know that we've all experienced it here, so don't be afraid to be honest and talk about it. Sometimes just talking about it can make a huge difference.

    Always remember that every day without porn and masturbating is a step in the right direction.

    Good luck to you! Stay strong! :cool:
     
  5. demon_slayer_asta9687

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    When I was in Grade 6 I overcame my issues but now I am starting from Scratch again.
     
  6. Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

    You are in the right place for recovery here. We are so glad to have you with us to beat this addiction together.

    You can go read some Success Stories in the "Success Stories" section to learn more about the benefits of NoFap , get useful tips and ideas to help you in the reboot.

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    And I would recommend you to make your own journal in the "Reboot logs" corresponding to your gender & age to track your everyday progress.
    You can also join challenges in the "Events & Challenges" section, to keep yourself motivated and focused.




    You may start by checking the links below:
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    Best of luck to you in your journey!





    -The Winner
     
  7. Always be positive

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  8. demon_slayer_asta9687

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    I have not Fapped for 2 days now. I have watched porn but I was not fapping instead I used it to make me go through torture to get myself to stop doing dumb shit and you know try to live a better life, I mean what do you all think?
     
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  9. I would suggest against even just watching porn. It's actually much more harmful to watch porn than it is to masturbate so watching it without masturbating basically means you're doing almost the same damage, and you aren't even getting the pleasure out of it. :rolleyes: If you had to pick one or the other, then masturbation is always on top.

    It's always better to just abstain from both completely though. Do the reboot, then you can decide for yourself whether to return to masturbating, but don't ever return to porn! It's never worth it. :eek:

    Hope this helps! :D
     
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  10. demon_slayer_asta9687

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    Good idea, I started getting an erection for no random reason. And I was not watching porn I was just looking at anime girls in bikini's but I didn't fap because I told myself to stop and pressed the Panic Button.
     
  11. You must stop the P and P-subs 100% if you want to get free.
     
  12. demon_slayer_asta9687

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    Tao, what is better NoFap or No Nut November? I am planning to do it later on during November.
     
  13. Why wait? The best time to start your recovery journey is right now!
     
  14. demon_slayer_asta9687

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    I know I am Tao, but I was wondering what all the hype was about No Nut November back then
     

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