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i’m on day 25 and why do i still get pretty horny to my porn induced fetish ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by 19m, Jun 8, 2019.

  1. 19m

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    does anyone have any thoughts ?
     
  2. Xhiddy

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    I think it's normal to still have those urges. I don't know if they ever go away completely. I just know they will reduce with time. Dont let your guard down ever. Trust the process. Congrats on Day 25.
     
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  3. recon117

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    It will take some time till everything will settle down! Your just at the beginning of your journey! But don't give up! You are strong! And going into the right direction yeyeeye
     
  4. Freedom_from_PMO

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    It may take time for them to weaken.
     
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  5. WanderTruth

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    I am not sure. But just like our thirst for P (which is wired in our genes- the urges to reproduce), our desire, fetish induced by P had a very long time to grow (the time we were trapped in PMO cycle) so you need at least the same amount of time to overcome it(it does not mean that you have to go on the way, just keep NF as a life style). I have the same problem with you, but I think as long as we keep going and live our lives to the fullest, find a girl who is compatible to us and settle down, I hope things will be okay. Just believe in ourselves and keep going, whatever it takes
     
  6. I've ready on one of the thread that even 365+ guy still have relapsed.
    So it's quite eye opening for me to always keeps my guard up.

    I think 3 things that saved me until this 19 days are:
    1. Keep educating the danger and the psychology behind addiction (lots of great threads here)
    2. Support others on the same journey as me (there are lots of New To Nofap that can be greeted)
    3. Journaling

    Those three actions I think will keep my guards up.

    Good luck brother :)
     
  7. 19m

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    thanks guys !
     
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  8. hollyman

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    Iam at day 90 and yet still feel urges to see P....what difer is i can control it easier this time
     
  9. Thomas Babcock

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    You probably spent years building up a sensitivity to the fetish, that’s not gonna go away in 25 days.

    A rule that I’ve come up with for getting over things is that it will take at least half the amount of time to get over it.

    You were with a girl for 6 months, will take you 3 months to properly get over her.

    You watched fetish porn for 2 years, it will probably take a year to fully get over it.
     
  10. oneotwo

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    Sumple advice bro, be paitent take the time, focus the day do some task learn just do things,
    I can say about mt self now i dont get any fetish, maybie at once in a while, but i dont take it seriously.
    Im no on the 60 day, before it i reach half year(in this time it was really hard to get rid of fantasy and urge to watch p).
    But now its moore easier.
     
  11. 19m

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    i’m on actually day 48 now ! been going strong !
     
  12. bigboibez

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    It can be scary but theres no point being impatient. you just gotta take it day by day and so long as you keep it as a lifestyle then you will 100% eventually get over it. relapsing will never help. so just focus on making NF a lifestyle and everything will fall into place. good luck
     
  13. Thomas Babcock

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    Nice man, how’ve you been doing? You still feeling horny from the fetish?
     
  14. 19m

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    ehh i’ve been getting horny again to women on the other hand and have been using subliminals for weight loss and such as well as working out .
     
  15. 19m

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    i agree ! same thing with subliminals i’m to impatient and i expect results immediately but it takes time .
     
  16. hi mate, what kind of subliminal do you use?
    Could you please share about this?
     
  17. my friend your still very early in the rewiring process. give it time im 53 days in and i can tell you it gets better. but urges never go away especially when you libido get back to normal so you have to understand this. its what you do with this sexual energy now that will change who you are.
     

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