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Help! Naked pictures and videos of my wife porn?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Jaydee1129, Jun 1, 2019.

  1. Jaydee1129

    Jaydee1129 New Fapstronaut

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    I am a recently recovering porn addict. just a few weeks have past since I stopped. My wife knows about it and is helping me cope through the struggle. I am a seafarer and spend most of my time away from my wife and family for 5-8 months. So my wife has sent me photos and videos of her to ease the longing when we are apart. Is it cinsidered porn? Am I going to relapse if I watch those pictures and videos of her?
     
  2. Surprise

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    That's really a matter of opinion but I'd say it's not. Porn is looking at other women whom you don't know engage in sexual activities, but you know your wife personally so looking at them isn't considered looking at porn, unless you're recovering from something like excessive masturbating, or ED, then you should avoid looking at them and wait until you've recovered. But if you're just addicted to porn, you can look at your wife like that. This is just my opinion though
     
  3. Of course it is porn (naked woman on a picture) and it doesn't help, when you masturbate to it while away.

    Though going aboard is a perfect opportunity for a hard mode reboot. Use it.
     
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  4. Jaydee1129

    Jaydee1129 New Fapstronaut

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    I was thinking of focusing all of my sexual emotions on her and her alone. So as to train my self to be content on one person that is my wife and not seek gratification on anyone else.
     
  5. Surprise

    Surprise Fapstronaut

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    Like I meant, different opinions are there. It's your choice in the end.
     
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  6. I would say no it's not porn. It's your wife your SO. So what ever she dose it's for you and your pleasure enjoy and dint over think
     
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  7. IamOlive

    IamOlive Fapstronaut

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    For me as an SO, I’d would like to send pics (tasteful really) to my husband as a part of us creating a spark, however I wouldn’t want my pictures to be used for M. I want the sexual intamcy and O to be only done with me in the real.
     
  8. Scientifically it is porn, your brain will not treat those pictures as your wife's but it will treat it biologically as it treats pmo by any mean. It might be tough but there shall be other healthy solution.
     
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  9. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    That's tricky.

    Yes it is Porn. However, it is bringing you closer to your wife. Is it helping with sexual relations while you're both together?
     
  10. LifeIsAmazing

    LifeIsAmazing Fapstronaut

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    As "Surprice" said: "It's all matter of your opinion".
    But I would consider it as porn, because you can access those pics or videos whenever you want. I'll ask you this: Do you see your wife naked all the time or whenever you want when you are home?
    Additionaly, does masturbation on your wife's pics or videos convey all those emotions and feelings that you get while having sex with him/her?
     
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  11. SuperFan

    SuperFan Fapstronaut

    I think the real question is, does it feel compulsive? Do you feel the need to masturbate 6x a day to the pictures of your wife?

    From a brain chemistry perspective, I generally think it's good to abstain from masturbation, period--so if your wife's pics are compelling you to fap, you two should have a conversation about whether or not it's helping you be the man you want to be. Only you can truly know whether or not the pictures are helping you and/or your relationship.

    Personally, I think it's cool. I would love to end up with a woman who sends me naughty pics and videos. That stuff seems totally appropriate and healthy in a committed relationship. But you have to look at your own behavior in response and decide whether or not it's healthy. Some people can have a single glass of wine and it's no problem. Others have a glass of wine and end up drinking the entire bottle. Just check yourself.
     
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  12. headandheart

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    I have found it triggering myself in the past when I looked at photos of my wife.
     
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  13. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    You are having sex with your phone, dont matters what is on the screen.

    In my opinion, is P
     
  14. jimparker

    jimparker Fapstronaut

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    As many others have said you need to work out what it means to you.. but for me, I would say that would be ok if I was in your position.

    As long as it wasn't compulsive and using more time than you wanted it to, and your thinking about the pics/vids that your watching of her and not actually letting your mind think of other people/porn.

    Its something you could try - only you will know if you experience issues when doing that.

    The flip side is if you can abstain fully then your not going to feel the chase effect of wanting more, and maybe other porn.

    Good luck
     

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