THE DUELS OF NOFAP: NO PMO TOURNAMENT | OPEN FOR ALL

LOL, just kidding. These are my drawings :

 

These are some of them. I had loads of other stuff on a notebook, and I lost them. Will try to post more if I find the remaining.

 

Won't you put up these drawings of mine in the new thread too, brother ?
These drawings :

 

Thank you brother !

It was very hard to try and draw such kind of pictures ! So, it should have definitely inspired you. I don't blame you brother !

 

Sadly guys I have to reset my counter - probably was too much overwhelmed yesterday. When I am in my feminine energy I'm OK but as soon as I have to be the man in the house sometimes and set rules and boundaries it's too much for me. Still learning. Next time I'll do push ups or plank when I have these damn urges! Been productive so far at work which is good.

 

@bluedragon9 I'm back, and checking in for today. How's your day going?

 

Sister, what if you're overwhelming yourself, by making yourself do a lot ? I think you're already having so much to do, and now, you're telling yourself that you'll do planks or push ups, every time when experiencing urges ? Maybe, the next time you experience an urge, sit down with your children, ask them about their day, or let them tell you any stories or anything. It's cute when small people do that, and it would surely take your mind away from all of your urges. You sure know about this, and maybe you do this, or maybe you don't because you think you don't have the time to do that, if the latter is the case, It's not like you don't have time, because you still manage to find time to PM. [ I am not trying to be rude or anything sister, just assuming that to be the case ] So, if that's possibly a viable option, try doing it. Else, just be with your children, it might help take your mind out of urges. That's basically what I am trying to say. Don't think too much Sister, just enjoy what they're doing. Just try to enjoy the moment. If you're feeling urges at your work place, maybe look at a picture of your children, or think about a beautiful incident you had with them. Don't go so hard on yourself, sister. Just take some rest. It's completely worth it. I saw you saying that, You had a long day at work and all, and after that, if you still stress your body, it won't do you any good. So, stay calm, sister !

 

I feel you.

Your motivation is not right.

EXPLODE ALREADY!

 

When you wanna inspire you, my blood is burning.

 

I gotta agree with @CoolBuddy7 here - less punishing "Her", more loving "Her". Instead of pushups, go dancing. Put your pink dress on and spin like a whirling Sufi for a while.

 

Urge
In the beginning of this streak i tried this weird thing of just laying there calmly while my urges filled me. You know blood rushing and all that. But i consciously let my hands rest at my side. To raise my arms from rest was to be my own conscious decision. I was in control. I didn't move a muscle . Eventually i got up and went to empty the bladder, that always helps. Splash some water on your face. Go drink water or something.
Urges are dead pretty much now. Unless i read some triggering stuff on this thread. Once you get out of your addiction routine, it's easy. Most of ud are doing PMO not because we want to, but because we can't not do it. Fight the addiction to realise you have a choice. Then you can exercise that choice and not do it.
Physical exertion is also very important to use the energy in a better way

 

You have grown a lot , monky.

 

Honestly there's nothing so great about Porn and Masturbation. It's something everyone can live without.
It's not even relaxing, sleep is more relaxing. Is there any reason why anyone would want to do it?

 

Go figure. People are weird, right?

70 days man! That's massive! Congrats!