Whats worse out the two of these?

I dont know both are shit. One is bullshit and one is horseshit

 

The second one for sure

 

Half an hour once per week would need to translate to two point two five wanks and two point two cums to be a fair volumetric comparison with the monthly binge of ten. So I say the monthly binge is better because of the longer rest and restraint

 

This is a false dichotomy I think. These aren't your only options. Yes, maybe a pattern has emerged, but you can use the 30 days respite to plan to extend. To note down what happens during the end of the month that triggers a binge, get real with yourself and make it 40 day,s 50 days and then longer. Don't give up on 30 days and say, 'well this is how it's always been'. Find a way to break the pattern. Heck, you did it once to get yourself up to 30 days to begin with, no?

 

I would say the first one is worse.
Both will ruin a man though

 

Binging ten times ？That’s excessive.

Probably more suitable would be aiming for a relapse rate of no more than once every 3 months.

And when you do fail limiting it to 3 times a binge.

 

You are buggered either way because neither allows you to reboot and that means you will be a porn addict for life.

I don't even understand why you would ask such a question. This is a porn recovery site. I fail to see how comparisons of indulging in your addiction being helpful to you or anyone reading this thread. Stop it now via hard mode - enough said.

 

It was helpful to me, thanks, as it offered fresh perspective on a problem behaviour Im stuck on that currently renders hard mode an impossibility for me regardless of its appeal

 

Yeah but remember how many of us would be here if it want for excess?

 

My bad.

So, if I understand you correctly, your plan is to binge PMOing 10 times in one day once a month and never watch any other porn the rest of the month? Good luck with that.

 

People need goals.

It’s probably unrealistic to tell him he will need to stay clean for 10 years.

Go for the 90 days and see how you do

 

It's not meant to be ideal either way. The point of the question is both options are undesirable but by comparing them with each other instead of an obvious ideal to gain new perspective. That's why I answered the question, can't speak for anyone else

 

That's such a retarded question. I could respect it if you ask it to be funny (and maybe you did, you didn't reply yet).
But otherwise you are on this website and also your two scenarios show that you think porn is bad. So the question is, do you want to get rid of it or not? There is no inbetween. When you have a spouse who hurts you more than improve your life, you divorce her. When you have a PC that crashes every half an hour, you buy a new one. When your body breaks down almost every time you do a sport, you change to a different one. Life is too short for bad compromises.

 

Yeah ahaha

 

When you're ready to quit PM you will try to quit for good. until then it will just be a spiraling circle no matter how often you PMO

 

You already know that both are bullshit.

Get your shit together. Stop being a lazy fuck*r.

Not intentioned to be rude to you, but someone need to tell you the honest truth: You are lazy, very very lazy. You need to activate, no one will do that for you.