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I masturbate, but without porn

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Izig, May 13, 2019.

  1. Izig

    Izig New Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I am new here and I want to know what do you think about this. I masturbate , but not to porn. I do it only to pictures of hot girls or i use my imagination. Is it the same as watching porn? I am 15 years old.
     
  2. Amidamaru

    Amidamaru Fapstronaut

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    I' ve tried this strategy on me too. I think there is nothing wrong with "imaginary fap" in my country it's call "pamięciówka". But when you get to the point, where you start to think about "Well I can use some instagram to check some girls" JUST DON'T. It's the biggest mistake you can do. First instagram, second google, then porn, and then you lost.
     
  3. Izig

    Izig New Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, but I watched porn and I stopped. So I am not afraid of starting again, i think i can control myself when it comes to this. So, pictures and videos are bad and imaginary fap is not harmful?
     
  4. Amidamaru

    Amidamaru Fapstronaut

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    Few months ago I've talk with my therapist about that. She said that imaginary fap is no harmful. It's good to rewire your brain into reality. Don't imagine porn imagines, it's bad way. Think about girl you like but not necesarry. If you don't get any benefits about that just don't do it. Think about something else, like your hobbies.
     
  5. Kratos_GOW

    Kratos_GOW Fapstronaut

    No you can't masturbate or watch porn or do them same time boy. Against the rules
     
  6. MO with no P is better than PMO, id say. Really, just do whatever you want as long as you remain a healthy productive human being.
     
  7. Souvent08

    Souvent08 Fapstronaut

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    I guess it’s okay as long as you control it. You are really young and it’s important to not become dependent on masturbation. I like to think that not masturbating holds your sexual energy in and you can use that energy for things that bring you joy and things that make you live life to the fullest.
     
  8. Hello @Izig. Welcome to NoFap! You have asked an honest question, so I'll give you an honest answer.
    Yes, masturbation is harmful. Many people want to think it's not, simply because it's has become so accepted by the vast majority; but I'm here to tell you, yes, it is. People will tell you you're still young, so it can't harm you; but, yes, it can. What they are doing is trying to play on your feeling, buddy. They don't care how it will effect you later. Masturbating now (even without pictures) will create an addiction that will, not can, but WILL lead to porn and broken relationships later when you become a full grown adult. Masturbating has never led to anything else, yet people try to cover up and say it won't unless you let it. Please PLEASE try to brake the addiction now. If somebody tells you you need to masturbate in order to learn how to have sex with a woman later, they're lying. Outright LYING. The truth is you will have a much better marriage (enjoying sex and intimacy with her, etc.) much much more, if you wait until then to ejaculate with your spouse. Don't worry, it's not too late simply because you've been masturbating. Join a challenge, get an accountability partner whom you can talk to about your struggles everyday, and let's get victory. :) I know I'm back to 0 days, but I'm picking myself up and going again. Let's enjoy life!
     

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