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I lost interest in sex

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, May 8, 2019.

  1. Hey guys. I have been doing NoFap for 3 years now, but this is my first post
    Well, I think that I lost any interest in sex. I find it 'disgusting' and repelling in real life. I even avoided some girls that seemed really interested in me ( during my ups 90+ days streak)
    I am only attracted to P and it took a toll in my life.
    Does somebody ever experience this effect of porn addiction?
    If so, how did you deal with that?
     
  2. The Bink

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    Sexual attraction is in your nature, it doesn't fade. Your brain is wired to porn right now. A good reboot involves de-wiring from porn and then rewiring to real sex and forming genuine romantic relationships. Did you try dating and building healthy relationships with girls during those streaks?
     
  3. JesusStrength

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  4. TheDiamondTention

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    My motivation for Nofap. If If there is a girl who thinks I am attractive and I don't want to be with her because of porn then FUCK PORN!
     
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  5. If all of the above is true, I would suggest testing your testosterone and estrogen levels.
    Sex drive is managed by hormones, and low testosterone is first on the suspect list.

    The fact that you feel aroused by pornography simply means you enjoy doing it, and has nothing to do with physical sex drive so do not connect the two.
     
  6. phwrancesco

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    you've been doing nofap for 3 years, but have you completed at least a 90 days reboot? if not...well you're not doing nofap!
     
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  7. No I did not. I was very 'focused' on my personal development and I saw dating as a waste of time. I was veeery wrong
     
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  8. Well, I first heard of NoFap and its benefits in 2016. I started my journey in May 2016. I've had some amazing ups and very desperate downs.
    My longest streak was 124 days, from July 2018 to November 2018.
    Since November 2018, I rarely reached 60 days. Since the beginning of 2019, I haven't reached 30 days yet
     
  9. JesusStrength

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  10. Actually, I did
    My longest streak was 124 days. But I felt back in this vicious cycle. I learnt that the 90day milestone is just a milestone. Not gonna lie, after this 90day, it's a whole new world, the benefits are reaaaaal. But it's also the starting point of a new journey, you gotta keep going or you'll fall back in this cycle
     
  11. JesusStrength

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    You have PIED or lost libido?
     
  12. phwrancesco

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    true! in my opinion, reaching 90 days is useful in order to understand that you have to keep going. My first streak was like 20 months long, this is my second :)
     
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  13. I lost libido, but I don't know if I have PIED. I'm not sexually active
     
  14. JesusStrength

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    Its because you are killing your own sexuality.. You need to get your mojo back if you want to go get a girl, etc. 3 years you should start masturbation again with no porn. Going to get real woman pussy, Get your libido back .
     
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