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Faking being a girl in chat

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Johntempted, May 1, 2019.

  1. Johntempted

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    I know this will bring reactions. But it helps me. I went deeper into other off ways. I created fake accounts and pretended to be a girl and got horny with guys being horny at the girl I pretended to be. I triggered them to express the desires I have on a hot girl that I found hor. Wanting them to do things to her I want to do to her. Now I am sure there will be strong reactions. But it’s the truth and I face it. It helps me. Maybe there are others who did things like that
     
  2. Im quite sure Ive chatted a "girl" who was a guy. I received a strange msg from a guy. Than quite similar msg from a girl. I told her that I know she is him. But she refused. Gave me the phone number, I called her and she had a female voice. After a call, we texted. I still think she was a guy. Thats all I can say to this topic.
     
  3. Dr. Mario

    Dr. Mario Fapstronaut

    Alternative thread title: "Confessions of a Catphish"

    You're definitely not the only one. After all, this activity is common enough to have the term "catphish" made for it! You can't find your insatiable whore in real life, so you pretend to be her and get off at the fantasy you've created. It's perverted, sure, but it makes sense. As long as you're committed to turning away from this sort of activity, there's hope for change.
     
  4. EatCake

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    Have you made amends? I am not an addict but I've seen others say this is what freed them the most.
     
  5. Johntempted

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    I can go deep into the character I am playing love being desired the way I would want her to be desired or the way I would desire her. I can make men super horny because I know what to say that triggers it. I am acting way more open as the girl would be ause I do it the way guys would like her to be. It’s also the acting of many different characters. The innocent young unexoeriejced. The slutty young. The experienced matured. The slutty one...
     
  7. Dr. Mario

    Dr. Mario Fapstronaut

    Yeah we get it, you write good enough to get other guys horny. Not the place to recount your "exploits". If you actually want to stop this behavior, you gotta stop thinking and typing like that.
     
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  8. Ive done the same, i have a fetish that i at the time didnt want to tell my GF about.
    When my ”addiction” escalated i found myself using pics of her on a fetish site just to hear others say things about her looks that i didnt dare saying.

    Nothing too sexual and nothing about people having sex with her, just comments on her looks pretty much.


    Its a stupid thing to do, but i realized it myself, talked to her about it,told her about the fetish etc and never done it since :)


    I think it depends on why you do it, as long as its not ”grooming” or trying to meet up or harm someone.
     
  9. InnerFaith

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    i would advice sex addicts to stay away from sexchats, there are many good men who slipped on the slippery slope and dropped into the lanes of illegality chats with underage teens. dont compromise yourself, see the danger and stay off.
     
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  10. Good men should have some kind of limit though, i used to chat and ask for pics of women with the same fetish that i have as I didnt dare telling my GF about The fetish.(not really sexchat though)
    That was as far as I could go back then, i would never ever in my life NO matter what, talk that way to minors, im 23 and I count 17 and younger to be too young.

    Theres no excuse for guys older than me chatting with girls younger than 18 IMO
     
  11. ultrafabber

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    Telling the truth always helps and it was courageous of you to do so. All addictions have roots in shame and are hidden, so the moment you expose them is when you start being free from them.

    You obviously need to stop doing that now and try to understand what drove you to do that in the first place.
     
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  12. InnerFaith

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    there are no excuses to participate in the watching of filmed exploitation aka porn, but good people still do it.
    there are no excuses to participate in the exploitation of an escort, but good people still do it.
    people contradict themselves all the time, its about being honest with yourself know your inclinations and work on it to fix your ways and not hurt others.
     
  13. I agree with you, but watching porn etc or chatting with other like minded adults shouldnt be compared to sex chatting with children in any way IMO.

    Sure a 17 year old is not as fuxked up as chatting with a pre-teen but still
     
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  14. InnerFaith

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    bro im not here to justifiy that, im just teling people to avoid it and avoid situations that might get them closer to that.
    whats the point of nofap if you go around chats and websites? its like letting the cat to watch over the cream.
    me personaly, i use a software that blocks alot of triggering content as well as explicit porn.
     
  15. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    Are you saying that this is
    1. a behaviour that you want to put behind you now that you are giving up porn, or that this is
    2. something you want to keep doing because you find it helpful?
    I cannot tell which from the original post.
     
  16. Oh, my bad man!
    I thought you meant that its all equally bad haha.


    I agree that chatting and porn whatever is as bad as any kind of PMO-source :)
    But if underage people are involved its much worse
     
  17. Johntempted

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    Thank you
     
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  18. Johntempted

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    Helpful to bring this out. It was secret and hidden. I don’t want to doing it anymore and shaving this sick pattern off of me which I feel I can.
     
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  19. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    Great - I'm sure you can too. Like any of the shameful mess we find ourselves in it will be hard, but I'm sure you can do it.
     
  20. Johntempted

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    Thank you. It’s not new for me to combat porn and perversion. I think I am mature enough in the struggle that this can fall off
     
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