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Keep peeking at porn

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Jojofan723, Apr 28, 2019.

  1. Jojofan723

    Jojofan723 New Fapstronaut

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    Was chilling on my computer and decided to "accidentally" take a look at some adult content. I'm in the middle of a nine day streak and got very close to relapsing. Thankfully, I decided to take a step back and look at the forum, but the urge is overwhelming. I know I should look at any pornography but it's hard. Send some love fellas.
     
  2. ClickClickBoom

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    All the love in the world wont really stop you from watching porn.
    The bottom line is that it all comes down to you and your mental fortitude your kinda just half assing it at this point "woops just accidentally watched Porn" you need to participate in your own rescue, if you wont do it no one else will do it for you.

    With that said shape up and focus on why your here, make us proud and most importantly make yourself proud.
     
  3. CH3RRY

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    You're already gone if you go willingly look at porn. You can't let yourself slip up in the very first steps that lead to a full relapse. 3 weeks ago, I made a record. I masturbated to the point of an orgasm 3 times in one day. What lead there was something extremely petty. I saw an ad about something where the was a girl just normally. A rush hit me and I just went and searched a specific porn star. I hadn't even remembered the name of that porn star in a long time, I could barely remember it now writing this. A watched a few pics for like half a minute and then stopped. But the urge came back later and I went to look at way more stuff and then finally masturbated. And I did it again, and again.

    I knew I was gone when I went to search for that porn star. I always am when I do something like this. When you haven't seen explicit sexual content in a while and you finally do, the rush you get is immense. It is something that can't be easily shaken out of your mind. Which is why you have to avoid searching or looking at anything visually arousing/stimulating. You will see some things accidentally (not accidentally like you explained) but for the most part, you have full control. Why would you make this any harder for yourself by going out of your way to search things? Remember:
    "I won't do it if it hurts me" .
     
  4. Lunis57

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    I would recommend you to use some websiteblockers like ColdTurkey that will remind you on your goals when you "just lose it" again.
     
  5. Jojofan723

    Jojofan723 New Fapstronaut

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    I decided to take a step away from my computer and lift some dumbells, I feel that it took my mind off things. I'll look into cold turkey, but I know that if push comes to shove I'd find some pornography anyway. It really is a test of my willpower I guess.
     
  6. Same thing happened to me just now. We have to stay strong
     
  7. Flawlfull

    Flawlfull Fapstronaut

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    Aaaaaand me ;)
     
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  8. Damn bro! If you think you are going to relapse and can't control yourself, then just do PMO for 1 more time, and that time, is SERIOUSLY the LAST TIME.

    Looking at porn and masturbation cannot be separated. I have tried to restrain myself after ACTIVELY watching at porn and it sucks! Take porn as the shlt in the toilet and masturbation as the paper you used. Are you going to only throw away the paper and keep the shlt? OBVIOUSLY NOT! Once you are ready, let go of both
     
  9. ZenAF

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    That's none-sense. I've looked at porn plenty times during my streak. I've never masturbated to it or right after it. I know I'll never masturbate to it again. I looked at it in strong moments, in week moments, I've never broken my promise. You beat an addiction one step at a time. Full on cold turkey has failure programmed into it. People try to not look and not masturbate over and over and relapse over and over. You know you can train yourself to relapse, right? Meaning your brain will get used to that game of pretending that you're quitting, only to relapse later. That's even worse than the addiction by itself.
    It's much better to take small steps and never fall back.

    I've looked at porn fewer and fewer times. I can feel it slowly exiting my life. But after 14 years I can't expect it to be totally gone within 4 month. It might take me the whole rest of the year until I also stop peeking at it and that's fine with me. I've already failed for two years taking the classic forum approaches, fuck them. I do shit my way this time and it works. I have no cravings, no urges to fight and I don't give a damn about triggers. All that's left is that I peek on to pornsite for the average of 5min per week without even getting aroused. That's one big ass difference after PMO'ing to hypno brainwash shit twice a day for years.
     
  10. I feel this. I occasionally look at some porn without O lately. I succeeded in not watching porn completely for like 40-50 days in total. But lately, it's really hard. Maybe it's because my libido has increased a lot (both for NoFap and Summer approaching, I think) and so I have very strong urges. I don't look at it every day though and I do it just for a short period of time.
     

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