Sex doesn't ACTUALLY feel that good !!

And now you're bringing up dicks!!

 

Guys, a friendly reminder... If you see a toxic response, plz don't respond with more negativity and rather report and move on with your life. It doesn't do to descend into unnecessary bickerings that are not gonna help either side.

 

You cleary meet the wrong women, my dude.

 

Your views on sex with a real woman are spoken by someone who is truly addicted to PMO

 

I just want to add when you're addicted to something it makes everything else less enjoyable. If you give up PMO, sex will feel better, and if you PMO sex will feel worse.
Also, there are also lots of hormones released in sex that are not released in masturbation.
There is tons of research showing frequent sex correlates with happiness.
Just adding my two cents.

 

Well said man. I am saddened by the majority of this thread. We are here to encourage each other and to help each other grow and become healthy. We are all in different parts of our own personal journeys. We all have problems, and we all react badly sometimes to differences of opinion etc. Let's not judge or condescend to anyone just because they share an opinion that may be unorthodox or even toxic. We are all struggling. It's good to offer help, but sometimes it can be difficult to offer help without coming across as condescending. And we can all misunderstand each other's intentions, which leads to an escalation of toxic replies, and snowballs into truly negative threads like this one. Let's not shame anyone--we all do enough self-shaming as it is.

Discussion of differing opinions is one thing. Fighting is another. It will do no one no good. Peace!

 

I hope you find happiness, dude. However, this site is mainly geared towards people who practice no pmo. You might want to find another crowd to share your views with. Unless, for some reason, you're deriving some sort of satisfaction out of playing devil's advocate nearly 99% of us will disagree with you.

There is a ton of research touting how horrible porn is, how bad it is for the mind, comparing it's merits to very nefarious addictions such as certain drugs. If you feel like sticking with the status quo, then that's fine, but perhaps take a look at the success threads and see how empowered people are when they've given up porn.

Also, to just agree for you for agreement sake, not everything in life is pursued for reasons of pleasure only. There is connection in an intimate relationship that you aren't going to get by yourself. So, even if for you it feels better, there is definitely merits to engaging in intimacy with other people besides pleasure.

Hope this finds you well, dude, and you can find some clarity on your views in the future.

 

What have you done to earn the right to pass such judgements? Absolutely nothing. So, don't talk when you can't walk.

 

Yet you made a thread about how sex is sacred?
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/sex-is-sacred.218462/

 

From my practice, if you don't like sex, this means you hadn't met the perfect woman that could turn you on that much. Sex is the best thing in the world and you can get really addicted to it. And to be honest, I was thinking in the same way as you, but I've got some help from my friends. They found Escorts in Launceston. Man, you really should have seen that girl, the best girl ever, she was doing things that I couldn't even imagine. I am really sure, that after a night with a girl like this you would change your mind, 100% sure. You need to try this, it will change you, you will understand what a real sex means and how you can spend a night with a real woman

 

Intimacy with a person you love and trust without reservation, because you have renounced over and over again your attachment to your selfish image of that person until you see her for herself, is an experience of inner freedom. When I am intimate with my wife - whether it's sexually or when we fall asleep holding each other - my mind is completely released. This love is liberating because it is simply there. Nothing to create or resist in my mind. I allow myself to be fully open to her and the love is there, its own reality, not a thought or an ordinary emotion, but release and rest into limitless freedom.

Of course this joy will create suffering in the future when one of us dies or the relationship ends. So there are two options in life - become a monk, I mean a real monk who has truly renounced the world in heart, not just in action; or love another person without reservation.

 

As others have noted, you are young.

I can assure you that when the norepinephrine system is working, Otho g feels as good as a vagina. Certainly not your hand or hers or her mouth or her anal cavity.

To suggest otherwise is to suggest a design flaw that does not exist. Pussy is perfect. It is what we were meant to fuck.

I can also attest that I have had real sex pretty much every day for the last 35 years. My virya was never drained. On rare occasions, I would have sex four or five times in a day. Still, I could have sex the next day.

It was not until I began masturbating to porn for three hours at a time that I ever had a problem.

You’re right in one thing: We are driven to fuck.

We are supposed to fuck.

Only those of us who do will pass on out genes.

But, I never feel drained or empty after sex.

I feel deeply satisfied like after a good meal.

Thankfully, that hunger returns the next day. That hunger and its quenching is the sauce of life.

 

You sure got that right all the way. This was a very nonsensical read that was highlighted and heightened by the OP with some ridiculous responses.