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Falling after 30 days

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by TheSword, Apr 12, 2019.

  1. TheSword

    TheSword Fapstronaut

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    i hate that feeling when u achieved a 30 days with no fapping then u just fell down.. well i knew the problem .. i watched some porn and thought i won't masturbate cuz it's just a video or two .. that's something i need to avoid and when i feel bad i need to use the Panic Button instead.. i'll start now again.
     
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  2. M.i.do

    M.i.do New Fapstronaut

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    Dont feel bad
    Iam sure that you will acheive more
    You are more
     
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  3. GREGOR hulse

    GREGOR hulse Fapstronaut

    Well, those are only lies. You subconscious will try to screw up your will. Only see that one porn. Only that and this. It will only undermine you. Don't do it. I know it by myself.
     
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  4. bro you need to quit the mind set of "just a little bit of this won't do any harm", "a little bit of porn is good" and "well I'm just going to edge, not going to fap" or "I will only look at porn, no masturbation".

    Dude, stop cheating on yourself. You know PMO is bad for you, you know you should not masturbate, but why did you fail?

    Reason no.1: you are not a nofap master after merely 1 month of practice, in fact, nobody is a master in the region unless they got to 5y years+. Don't fap just be cause "well I have achieved this much, might as well just award myself with a little bit of fap". NO DUDE! A relapse on day number 1 is as bad as a relapse on day number 100! Only till you got to the level of no desire of PMO and no urges completely, you will get all the benefits.


    Reason no.2: be dead serious. This is the reason why most people fail at nofap. They are just not serious enough. When you are ready to SACRIFICE whatever to become the NEW PERSON, you will do it! But first you have to be serious about it. You need to realise the harm PMO has done to you and DO NOT WANT to become that person.

    Here are some tips for you:
    -cut all connections with PMO (triggers, images, whatever), because eventually you will get to your old place again.

    -think of something you love. If you don't sacrifice PMO, the momentary pleasure for what you love, YOUR LOVE WILL BECOME THE SACRIFICE FOR DOING PMO.


    That is all I got, hopefully you will really apply this in real life and become the person you want to be :)
     
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  5. TheSword

    TheSword Fapstronaut

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    Guys <3 thank you so much i really need that too much .. i have like nothing to help me that's why i failed but now i have NoFap community .. i hope i will come again from today .. i want to be the new person that i want to be! i will do that SACRIFICE! i know that's the right thing and i hope i will accomplish it!
     
  6. bigboibez

    bigboibez Fapstronaut

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    Youve done so well man. Do not beat yourself up, not even a bit. Learn from your mistakes and come back happier and more confident than before.
     

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