Do you think (sex) fantasizing is 1st or 3rd person?

I'm unsure if I understand the question, but I think it depends more on the genre of porn. I mean, that's the whole point of POV porn, isn't it? Because it's easier to fantasize that it's you down there? I guess that would be more of a 1st person type, maybe? Like you mentioned before, though, no matter how much you want that to be you down there...it's not.

 

I like how you think about this stuff.
I have even found myself essentially viewing myself (and the girl) whilst having sex, and I don't mean with video or a mirror.
Not really a healthy thing.

 

I've noticed that when I have that porn arousal effect in my brain, I fantasize in 3rd person like I'm looking at a scene. I only watched solo female videos but I still fantasized about looking at the whole scene from 3rd person. But as time goes by, and I start losing the porn induced arousal, my fantasies are in 1st person, with me engaging. Also the fantasies become less dirty and more sensitive when I abstain from porn.

 

yeah it happens to me too

 

I mostly fantasize in the first person, just because I know that is how I will perceive it. Not often but sometimes I do fantasize in the 3rd person, except I am still the male in the fantasy.

 

When I fantasize, it's almost always in 3rd person. I'm not heterosexual so I've never had a problem with watching men with women. I've never viewed it as a competition. I probably have very little in common with most guys here in that regard.