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I am traped in a cycle.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Infrasapiens, Apr 14, 2019.

  1. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    I forced myself into a flatline after my ex-girlfriend left me as I really wasn't interested in absolutely nothing. A few days ago I started to leave said flatline and was actually happy about it, until I realized that the reason I got in that flatline in the first place is because of my self-steem issues, as I don't think I can have a relationship again due to many reasons. Now I am thinking about entering another flatline as there is no point in wanting something you cannot have. So I am in a cycle where I never actually feel good. Should I stay in the flatline?
     
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  2. SuperiorMan95

    SuperiorMan95 Fapstronaut

    Isn't flatline something that happens to you? The way you wrote "Should I stay in flatline?" makes it sound like it's a conscious decision for you. I'm not sure I understand your question...
     
  3. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    It is a conscious decision for me. Is it prefferable to stay in it if everything is worse when you are out of it?
     
  4. SuperiorMan95

    SuperiorMan95 Fapstronaut

    Flat line is when your body goes through a stark drop in libido during a reboot.

    But either way, not all relationships have to be about sex and lust. Try finding a girl who can be patient. Or if you don't ever feel good especially after 149 days, you may want to start looking at other areas in your life that can use a tune up.
     
  5. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Not watching pornography is not the only way of getting of entering a flatline. I don't know what can "tune up".
     
  6. Wayne Kest

    Wayne Kest Fapstronaut

    Go about life and brace yourself for the rebound into horndog town. Tea and L theanine helped me a lot tho
     
  7. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    I sincerely apologize but I do not understand anything you typed there.
     
  8. Wayne Kest

    Wayne Kest Fapstronaut

    Whoops, possible rebound into horndog town, I meant
     
  9. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Horndog town?
     
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