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The best method for porn addicts

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Apr 11, 2019.

  1. When i was on vacation i had no thoughts about porn or relapsing, no urges at all, that proves to me disconnecting from the internet and electronics is the key to nofap success, why do we all relapse?, we dont relapse when we have no internet, but always when we have internet, so my solution is to for a couple months get rid of all electronics, your laptop, phone, everything, if you truly want to recover this is something you must do i believe, during vacation my eyes were opened, i had brought no technology at all and it was amazing, so get rid of your junk or keep relapsing.
     
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  2. Infinite spirit

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    And what after you get back your electronics?!..are you going to not use electronics for the rest of your life?!!.
    Sorry but I disagree. Personally..i can use electronics and internet all day and even before bed and I have no urge to watch porn..i just finally understood that nothing good will ever come from porn but ruining my life on every level..physically ..sexually..mentally..spiritually. so why would I want to do that anyways?.its effortless for me..it all boils down to your understanding. Willpower is not required. These are superficial solutions ..as long as you still want to do pmo..you will eventually do it..you still don't get it.
     
  3. I dont think you get it, you are correct about the mindset needed to succeed, but doing things to help you is not bad at all, you are not taking electronics away forever, just until your reboot is fully complete, than you wont have urges when you bring them back in, i assume by the way you talk that you are 100% healed and no longer an addict.
     
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  4. ElogicalStudent

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    i feel less urges when all my wifi is off at home
     
  5. that could work, but the problem is it can be turned back on.
     
  6. ElogicalStudent

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    yeah
    I'm making shedules for surfing on the internet now
    the next goal is to use internet only as a tool
     
  7. Infinite spirit

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    What exactly I don't get?..you are saying very simply leave all electronics and you won't relapse. That's right "temporarily " . But it won't work in the long run. The bottom line..as long as there is even a desire to do pmo that you have to resist or run away from..you will keep doing it.
     
  8. good idea, a good method i use is i borrow my mom laptop, if you only need the internet for school or jobs, than you will be fine borrowing someones, i did this method for months and i never had urges because i would not look at bad things on her laptop, i ended up relapsing when i used my tablet, so i plan on getting rid of all my stuff and borrowing her stuff.
     
  9. You dont lose the mindset, you simply get rid of electronics to help things go smoother, but you never lose the mindset, and when you bring them back you will not relapse because you still have the mindset and a normal non porn addict brain.
     
  10. Infinite spirit

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    Sorry to break it for you all ..this method won't work
    Help what to go smoother?..if you "truly" have this mindset you won't need anything to help you. For me..i can have porn pop ups in my phone late at night and I just block it. I'm so outgrowing all this stuff..you just have to fucking get it in your bones ..like fuck. If I'm going to keep doing pmo I'm fucked and ruined for the rest of my life! . If this is really your mindset..then why you have to stay away from electronics ?. Simply because.. this is not your mindset ..you still don't believe it.
     
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  11. CoolRandomDesiDude

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    You may be right that going without tech is getting more impossible and not ideal for many of us but it boils down to self control. Can you take control of your mind and redeem it so that when porn is literally on the doorstep, you choose to walk away. Going without tech for long periods of time just to reboot will help.
     
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  12. CoolRandomDesiDude

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    Porn blockers are half the battle. The other? Sheer will.
     
  13. Infinite spirit

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    Yes I absolutely can ..how badass am I?!. Oh please..its so easy man!.
    No..it won't help..you will fall back again once you get your electronics back. You shouldn't cut the electronics..you should cut the false illusion of porn being a good thing worth watching in the first place.
     
  14. Infinite spirit

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    All the battle is your mindset.
     
  15. CoolRandomDesiDude

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    A tech ban and porn blockers are crutches to help you get back on your feet. If you feel strong enough, then go for it but remember this. Don`t bite off more than you can chew. I have heard of many drug addicts that went off their medications because things started looking up only for them to crash right back down
     
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  16. Infinite spirit

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    I'm just growing up ..what does it take to not pull your dick out and jack off to pixels?...nothing !!. Just don't do it..this the bottom line..and before we get to this we can keep talking until the end of time.
     
  17. CoolRandomDesiDude

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    It is good to focus on the direct goal because that is where discipline is effective
     
  18. no one thinks porn is a good thing or worth watching.
     
  19. so you are 100% rebooted correct?.
     
  20. Infinite spirit

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    In terms of not wanting to do pmo ..yes. I'm done with it forever.
     

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