(first ever post)Blue balls, premature ejaculation?

Lasting longer in bed takes practise and fitness which you obtain from exercise.... and practising the art of making love.
I never had the blue balls, I get a burning "desire" but not pain, the desire always stems from my mind which I can control, put aside, or simply transmute into physical exercise or even mental thought on whatever I'm doing.

There are two ways you can look at this....

1) Avoid that which makes you aroused till your somewhere you can do something about it, rather than "make out" make it just a kiss... minimise the Public DOA
2) It's in your mind, you can try to be able to provide that affection to your partner without becoming turned on. I know we like to use the excuse that we're not in control of our emotions or feelings but we really are and the strongest of us can provide the satisfaction to our partners without becoming so aroused that we orgasm or get hard from making out. This is really hard IMO

 

While blue balls can cause some discomfort it cant hurt you at all. Just think of it lime a hard workout. Your body hurts but you get results in the end. I think I get a similar thing to you.

I think its because we masturbate so much our balls arent used to being full and heavy anymore, instead they are like little shrivelled up walnuts. Just think how good it will feel when you have a big heavy set of alpha male balls hanging between your legs. So just put up with the pain and think of it like training.

 

As for cumming quickly, well thats just practice. If your having sex and you feel an orgasm building just pull out until your dick calms down and then go again, maybe get your girl to change positions so theres something going on while your loins settle down.
If i do t want it to end ill stop and go go down on the girl for a while, it keeps me hard, makes her happy and then whenever im ready i can go back to sex.
Basically, im trying to say that making love involves more than just sticking it in the whole and thrusting. You can really make a love making session last as long as you want.