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Fell Again today...

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by RebootingProtestant, Apr 2, 2019.

  1. RebootingProtestant

    RebootingProtestant Fapstronaut

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    I actually am so weak... I got up to 29 days then failed, then made it only 3 then failed again... I want to get it down to at most once a month but it is still a cancer in my life causing pied, low libido and a myriad of other things that I'm trying to fix.
     
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  2. Sasha

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    It's better than me, I went 17 days and after kissing a girl I was so horny, 2 days later I fapped thinking about her. Time for both of us to restart. My problem is I get anxiety if i don't fap and it feels like I'm about to have a heart attack, the fapping calms me down.
     
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  3. RebootingProtestant

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    Dang bro I'm sorry stay strong and I wish you the best. I am mainly stopping to cure my PIED bc i have trouble keeping it up with my girlfriend, but once I get home from being with her I am so horny and it makes me want to fap to her even more, so I know where you're coming from.
     
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  4. That was a good streak, you can do it again. Dust yourself off and get back to it. In the last month that you have had more days clean than you have slipped. You can do this.
     
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  5. RebootingProtestant

    RebootingProtestant Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much, this means a lot.
     
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  6. Fenix Rising

    Fenix Rising Fapstronaut

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    Don't get discouraged if you fail. You are only human. The most important part is to realize you made a mistake, work on getting sober and staying that way.

    Single most important thing when you relapse is to pick yourself up and continue with recovery immediately. Don't go down the rabbit hole all the way.

    Maybe even try to do hardmode for 90 days. I was never able to abstain from P and PM alone until doing full monk mode thing (no P, M, O, MO, PMO, sex). Maybe because our brains need time off from everything to rewire. Screens where not around when evolution produced our grey matter.

     
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  7. CH3RRY

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    That amount of abstaining shows good willpower in you. One thing you need to know is that when you go on longer streaks and relapse, it will usually happen in the form of bingeing. Long streaks and bingeing can be worse than regular use. It can make your addiction stronger. So if you were to do this once a month, and everytime binge, you could be getting deeper into your addiction. But the possibility of this being once a month thing isn't realistic either, the chaser effect will be too strong and you will almost always go on a shorter streak after a longer one. You need to do your very best to put a complete end to this. Be careful of making this worse for yourself.
     
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  8. RebootingProtestant

    RebootingProtestant Fapstronaut

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    Thank you. This makes a lot of sense and I will definitely keep this in mind.
     
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  9. RebootingProtestant

    RebootingProtestant Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much!! this means a lot!
     
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  10. Habbapop

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    Keep it up bro ! Don't know how many times i have fallen of the horse. But just get back up ! And learn from you relapse.
    This is not my longest BUT my best streak.
     

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