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need some advice !

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by 19m, Mar 26, 2019.

  1. 19m

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    why am i hooked on crossdressr porn / transsexual but don’t like dick ? had porn escalated me to this ? because even when i’m successful with free pmo i always go back to this why ? i’m sick of going to this shit the only time i per day enjoy is when jacking off i would never have sex with anyone but a women only this is really fucking up my life :( plus i only see guys as friends nothing more
     
  2. Ridley

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    Hello again.

    I'm just going to start by making a simple observation here: you make about one of these panicked "I might be gay" posts per week. I just want to point out that it's a pattern.

    Here's a question you might want to ask yourself instead of "am I gay?". Ask yourself "How is this panicking helping me out?" Ask "Is this making me feel better about myself, or is it a setback?"

    I asked you this in your last thread, but have you considered trying any relaxation techniques like meditation or exercise? It really might help you out.
     
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  3. 19m

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    thank you
     
  4. GorillaVikingwithaBLT

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    It's very common for some porn addicts to watch a porn genre, like gay porn even though they aren't gay, just for the sake that it's something different. It shocks you more rather than the traditional porn that you'd watch. The addiction only escalates so you can keep getting a high taking you to places that you may not be into at all. The reason why you keep coming back to that specific stuff is I suppose that part of your brain hasn't finished rebooting quite yet when you're free from PMO. Those previous habits are hardwired into the brain and you get right back on it. It's gonna take some time to recover, but you can do it!
     
  5. 19m

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    thank you!
     
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  6. 19m

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    what about pictures and stuff does that go for the same thing?
     
  7. GorillaVikingwithaBLT

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    I assume so. Anything that triggers you to look at or think about that sort of stuff. It'll definitely affect the healing.
     
  8. 19m

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    well failed again and it’s getting worse what do i do?
     
  9. GorillaVikingwithaBLT

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    watch this if you haven't already. It's long but I believe it's necessary if you want to really stop. Gotta take control and change your habits that lead you to that point.
     
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  11. 19m

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    i also do believe i have hocd because even when i watch just normal youtube videos of guys i worry if i’m gonna get hard to them even tho i know deep down i won’t and i’m constantly worrying if i’m bi
     

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