Will watching bondage help with femdom

''Why do you think porn will damage you? Just watch a little, it's alright, everybody watches porn you know. You know it's super relaxing to enjoy it. You deserved it.'' Ideas like these are called rationalizations. In order to take a step back and have a better perspective, to see the big picture, one must be smart. People constantly advise cold showers and meditations yet not greatly emphasize the importance of working on something you love. I believe you don't have enough authority figure in your life. Call your father, mother, grandpa your gym coach, someone you value by will and not by fear. They will put some sense into you, remind you of what a man can do and what a man cannot do. They always make me ravenously attack my responsibilities in my life so hopefully, it will equally be benefitting you.

 

I suggest you to just stay away from all porn forever. This idea is more bad than good. Porn won't help you with anything. And also I agree with above, even if you are seriously thinking that this would actually help with your problem, this thought is more about you rationalizing/giving yourself an excuse to look at porn.

 

No don't! Avoid porn altogether. I had a similar experiance and I found that once I started opening the door to other fetishes it never stops - draw a line in the sand now because you will find others that you like.

 

You should stop watching any kind of porn as soon as you can. Although there are different kinds of porn, they all do the same damage to your brain, besides screwing with all your relationships with people.