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Loneliness leads to excessive PMO

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by aggressive turtle, Mar 17, 2019.

  1. aggressive turtle

    aggressive turtle Fapstronaut

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    hey guys,

    I’m sure I’ve annoyed a lot of people. I have a bad habit of jerking off multiple times a day. I know it’s not good for me but I just can’t help it.

    I fantasize about these hot women that I meet but I want to be able to stay strong. I used to have a habit of watching gay porn, but never wanted to act sexually on men, just wanted to look like them. I’m relapsing and need encouragement. I’m trying.
     
  2. Peiskos

    Peiskos Fapstronaut

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    You need to find a hobby, anything to occupy the time you spend PMOing.

    I know for me when I was going through the urges to PMO I got into reading, I had never even read a full book in my life and I thought that was an embarrassment so I picked it up and I ended up reading a number of books and legitimate long ones too not thin ones.

    It gave me a sense of achievement, it made me feel productive and in turn it made me more confident in myself..opposed to PMO which gave me all the opposite feelings.
     
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  3. the thread name is like saying "water is wet" haha

    but seriously you're right. and the post above me makes a good point. find a hobby. or at least something to divert your energies. what really helped for me was a creative outlet. or, and i honestly think anybody who excessively PMOs should do this, go to the gym. make it a habit. nobody says you need to build muscle, you can if you'd like, but it's supposed to be there to get you into shape and work off your energies.

    with any hobby you do or skill you learn, you're going to see progression. you're also going to see what happens when you take the tralala out of your hand and apply yourself to something other than spanking the monkey. both of those combined will light the path for you and make abstaining from PMO so much more rewarding
     
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  4. LinkUp

    LinkUp Fapstronaut

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    @Sharksvv I'm just tagging along trying to motivate you to succeed in nofap because I really liked your advice you gave me and I find it to be very helpful. So thankful to you man. I hope you succeed in your own goals man! Want everything to be good for you. Appreciate everything you're doing. Love it.
     
  5. LinkUp

    LinkUp Fapstronaut

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    My advice to you is to start your counter, and make a post here about your feelings. I'll try to help you. In fact we are both trying to quit so might as well help each other to do it. If urges become so strong, you wanna freeze yourself with cold water or ice cubes. Name one person who wants to have sex or masturbate in freezing cold ice water (no one!). Now that being said, I think of sex addiction as a fire. I mean what do you feel when you feel horny? You probably have a burning sensation in your private part area (sorry for the graphicness, lmao xD) and are getting all firely and ready to explode. So how do you put out a fire type sensation? Freeze it with cold water. I can totally understand the feeling you have from exploding. Anyway even if you don't want to do what I'm telling you, at least post your feelings here daily and get your counter going. This is how we will improve you. I will try to support you on your way and head you into the right direction. As an "addict" myself, I know its ironic for me to be giving you advice, but there is much strength when people try to support eachother. Please man, post here, let me keep up with you and help you!

    And hello! :) nice to meet u
     
  6. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    Being alone is not the same as having a weak will, focus on reality.
     

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