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Trip, sleeping in the same room as others.

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by SorryWontSayIt, Mar 6, 2019.

  1. SorryWontSayIt

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    Hi,

    This may sound really weird!

    So I want to keep going on nofap, because I have tried it many times and I know it give good benefits. The problem I am currently having now is that I am soon going on a trip. Me and some other people will sleep in the same room - and because of that I am a bit afraid of having a wet dream while being on that trip.

    Anyone got some tips or anything that I can do?

    I know nofap is worth it, but a the same time it would be really weird to me to have a wet dream while there are other people there.
     
  2. I understand, i leave for bootcamp in a couple months and i am scared i am going to say some gay shit in my sleep, i was addicted to sissy porn so i am really worried lol.
     
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  3. SorryWontSayIt

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    What are you going to do about it? Just keep going nofap, or take a break from it until the bootcamp is done?
     
  4. nah i am not stopping NoFap, if i quit now i would be in trouble when i do leave.
     
  5. WalkingForward

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    Maybe have toilet paper around your penis and wear double underwear. Or a condom maybe. Some way of preventing semen from slipping out and staining the sheets, so that nobody would notice it.

    Don't give up on NoFap whatever you do!
     
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  6. SorryWontSayIt

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    Thanks that a great tip that I will aboslutly consider! Maybe a stupid question, but do people somehow act while having a wet dream, like say stuff in their sleep or do weird stuff? haha.
     
  7. WalkingForward

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    I don't know, but I think everybody have had some weird, random dreams. So whatever you could say in your sleep, others would be understanding, maybe just find it funny. And if they're asleep, they won't hear it anyway.
     
  8. I'm not a man, so take my advice with a grain of salt because maybe your body doesnt work the same way mine does in this area. But I would say the number one thing is to try not to think about it and to keep your thoughts pure. Any time your mind goes toward something sexual or checking out a girl or anything like that, shut that down immediately. For me, most of my sexual dreams occur after a day that I've been thinking about sexual stuff a lot. They don't generally just pop up out of the blue.
     
  9. Depends on the person, I would say. I've talked in my sleep a few times before and moved around and sleep walked once or twice, so I wouldn't be surprised if I might be vocal during sex dreams. But if you've never done any of those things then I would guess you're probably fine.
     
  10. I actually just had my first wet dream this morning, i have sex dreams a lot but i never cum, its weird like in my dream i was having an intense orgasm, and when i woke up i was like why are my pants wet, and sure enough i came in my sleep, no wonder that dream orgasm was so damn intense.
     
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  11. Ra's Al Ghul

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    I made it a policy to never sleep in a room with others unless it's a lover I'm with. No desire to hear other people snoring all night or farting.
     
  12. My cretinous brother (not the evil one, a different one who I actually love but I'm not blood related too) did this thing last time I crashed in the same living room as him, where he sounds like he's fucking dying and he can't breath, then he is suddenly fine, then he starts snoring until he crescendos into the death sounds again. Over and over and over and over and over on fucking loop, all. fucking. night. I swear down the fucking retard cannot even sleep properly.
     
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  13. Ra's Al Ghul

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    :eek::D YES! I've had similar experiences; hence my official policy now. lol
     
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  14. SorryWontSayIt

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    Fully understand you guys! I would prefer to only sleep in the same room as someone a lot closer. But this is for my education, because the class is going on a trip. So I can't really say no, if I do - I won't be able to get trough the education.

    But I know the person whos in the same room as me, but have not talked about nofap with the person - so not sure if the person would understand.
     
  15. You're worrying about it too much bro, guarantee you you're gonna be fine. You can sleep in baggy jogging trousers. Or if it suits you, you could have a wank before you go, just don't watch porn. Just do what you've got to do, don't beat yourself up about it.
     
  16. The Wrestler

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    What's wrong with saying "gay shit" in your sleep, or when you're awake, for that matter?
     
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  17. Why do you think
     
  18. The Wrestler

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    Yeah, that's what I'm asking you - what's wrong with it?
     
  19. zeekland

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    No such thing as a break, that's just your mind coming up with excuses. I would just sleep with some sweats/flannel pants on and if you bust a nut that will cover you while you walk into the bathroom and change.

    Simple, he will be mocked....lot of people don't want to know the person to their left or right is gay. They can say it's not like that but it still is for the most part today, right or wrong, why do you think "don't ask don't tell" is such a popular thing in the military? There was a huge thing here recently, they tried to force a transgender (he had to enlist as a male) into a position of power, 90% of the enlisted men requested transfer/resignation papers the following day. I had no clue they even let them into the core to be 100% honest here.

    That is just basic human nature, I mean he could go and report it but then he would just be ostracized by everyone around him.
     
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