Need to quit porn

Hey mate,

I think not watching porn is a good idea, get your mind sorted out. As for finding "regular" girls less attractive, that is another whole matter. There is nothing wrong if you find "curvy" or "larger" girls attractive. That is just what you like. To you that could very well be your "regular" which is nothing to be ashamed of. We all have our own taste in women. As for calling yourself fucked up. Not at all. You're dealing with an issue, and you're working it out. By being here you are addressing that issue. Small steps.

 

Health is important. Admitting it is an issue really is the first step. I feel you on that one. Am going through it myself.

Also, don't feel too bad about what you have watched, it is what it is, and was at that particular time. You know you don't want to view it again, so you have made a step in the right direction, mate.

 

Keep us posted, mate.

 

You're going well, mate. Message me anytime.

 

I totally think stopping porn will help. There's probably a natural attraction that's gotten a little twisted. There's certainly lots of physical variety in real women, and it's good there's guys out there for them all. But, yeah, staying happy and wanting your wife healthy are good ideas as well. You're on the right path now. Don't give up and your mind will recover for sure.

 

I think 1 per month is about average. But a few times a week is nothing unusual when one has suddenly stopped a high sex drive.

I can't say if they ever go away completely, but with occasional regular sex or natural masturbation, they should. Otherwise, it should just be in the first few months of recovery when they are more common.

 

You have to change your life completely and find out why do you want to abandon porn? and most importantly you've got to fill your schedule up totally. Don't leave an inch unfilled with any positive activities that would keep you distracted, seriously the first few days are so hard and then things ease up. but again the key is through these activities some of them must turn into habits. So that later every time you're tempted to watch and masturbate you instead go and practice this/those activities/s. They could be as simple as drawing, walking, going out with friends/family/siblings or even along, sports, grading, cooking, reading, attending events, or even your job. Just make what you do as engaging and interesting as possible.

I would highly suggest downloading and following up with this app Reborn in Google Play.
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=reborn.ma.com

Because it will keep you alert and aware of your problem. Hence, avoiding it.
Nevertheless, if you relapse, it's not the end of the world just get back to the right path as quick as possible. Your brain is still aware of your new path!

 

Controlling what we "see" is impossible, but not letting images really get in there, that's a lot of the trick. Going to get more difficult with warmer weather and so much immodesty.

Do you think the slip with porn led to the full reset? That's always a fear of mine, and why I avoid psubs at all times to just try and stay safe.