I didn't have a boner during making out...

I made out with a girl for half an hour as well. And I didn't have a boner either. When the clothes start to come off then you should start getting a little hard. Sometimes she has to give me a little hand job to get it going which Its pretty normal just stick with it my guy

 

Get your hands on her feet, gently rub them during kissing....that will help

 

Doesn't always happen right away. Were you nervous? That could have had a lot to do with it. Don't freak out - that will make it worse. In your mid-20s, there's likely nothing medically wrong with you. Keep on going with your reboot and try to relax and enjoy any sexual encounters - the more you think about your erection when you are with a girl, the less likely it is you're going to have one.

 

i have a similar thing happening but i am a 27 year old woman. no p at all for 5 months so far after i completed 1 year hard mode but relapsed after. my libido is gone again, i still get excited but it happens rarely. i noticed i get excited when i am away from a guy i date or when i drink alcohol is back

it sort of bugged me last time i was making out with last guy i dated last winter and i wasn't feeling anything for my libido but i felt it was more sweet and focus on inner and deep connection more than getting excited

don't worry, your mind and body has to get used to your reboot. even first time i did my reboot for a year i had even lack of libido for months (but i was going through a heartbreak of a relationship as well)

 

Also have ED bc of porn.
Starting dating a girl few days ago and tought fuck it! I'll ask her
Should of been happy buy only got more stressed bc i can't even have sex with her bc of all of this.
So pretty much same problem ...kinda.
I hope for once that i don't fuck this up

 

Well yeah its best to look at it as primary and secondary causes. Like not getting one is prob from pmo. But u stopped 3 weeks now so could be u were just nervous or she was really hot or it was too unreal for u compared to porn etc.

But also u dont always get boners from pure making out. If ur some time into ur streak u do tho in my experience i get more turned on but keep in mind as well there is also something called flatlines where while ur healing from porn , u may experience this.

My main suggestion to u is to continue ur nofap journey more diligent but not to stress out about it. Stress kills erections before they can start.

Also note when u have specific fetishes like that it can also be doubley hard for the brain to respond to other things. Never ever practice ur foot fetish ever. U gotta kill that like thats high on the list. If u relapse in the future , do not do it to that.

 

i didnt get one either but it was because i forced the kiss and there was 0 chemistry. what a mess. wihs i could undo all that

 

I used to have the opposite problem, because of my PMO I would get a boner just talking to girls. It was so awkward and I had to try really hard to conceal it. NoFap has had the effect of viewing girls not just as sex objects but as actual people. I say it's a good thing and shows maturity and self restraint - or it could be the flatline. either way as long as you can get hard during intimacy I don't see a problem