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Stopped Wet dream while ejaculating - dangerous?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Kohai, Feb 16, 2019.

  1. Kohai

    Kohai Fapstronaut

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    Yo, i got a wet dream and i felt that an ejaculation was starting. Right in the middle of the ejaculation i managed to wake up from the wet dream and suddenly jumped out of my bed and made some hard movements to stop the ejaculation immediately. Still, some semen spilled out, i got a medium-sized circle on my briefs. But it didnt seem like real sperm, more like precum, so im not that sad about it.I think it was no sperm, because it wasnt white after on my briefs, it was a clear fluid, no white traces. Im still asking myself, if this technique is unhealthy??? For any organ there below.. I didnt put pressure on my prostate or penis, i just suppressed it by making some hasty moves and by pc-muscle i guess. Is there still more sperm lost then i spilled out because it already left the testicles and maybe entered the vas deferens or ejaculatory duct (here a video, if you dont understand what i mean! ) And is it unhealthy the suppress it? It didnt feel like a full relapse fortunately, only like a very very very small relapse, i think its effect is almost over. But this questions are not going out of my head now.
     
  2. This has happened with me multiple times too.

    You could feel that you are going to have a wet dream and suddenly you wake up at the right moment and just stop it from happening.

    There is nothing unhealthy about this. I would rather call you lucky for waking up at the right timing.

    Mostly, it's prostatic juice that comes out in the wet dream, with only a little semen.

    Relapse happens when you consciously watch P or do M. You clearly didn't do it consciously. It's not a relapse mate.

    Continue with your streak. Wish you all the best :)
     
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  3. Kohai

    Kohai Fapstronaut

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    Thank you :) Wish you all the best too for your journey and life :)
    I just got a bit worried about it, because some people say that it is unhealthy to suppress it.
     
  4. I've done this multiple times. Sometimes with more success and sometimes with less, but I am getting better every time. All I do is simply squeeze PC muscle right before wet dram. My wet dreams always come with orgasms. It's not like that for everyone but it is for me. Had a few dry orgasms that way; the orgasm still happens but ejaculation is either few drops or nothing at all. It's pretty much routine for me now haha. I guess I'm lucky cos I always wake up right before ejaculation, it's just always been that way, so I have time to stop it.

    It's unhealthy if you cause retrograde ejaculation. But this method does not do it so it should be fine. There is something to be said about not letting prostate fluid to empty though. We do accumulate a lot of toxins in it and prostate fluid, unlike sperm, can not be reabsorbed. So the only way how to get rid of them is through ejaculation. If we would not get rid of it, it could cause prostate inflammation and maybe some other problems over years.

    I don't think it's such a big danger though because we can release some prostate fluid during urination. And it's not like we will never ejaculate in our life, for most of us we just want to retain for period of time, like few months. However it is something to take in consideration if you are aiming to retain for the rest of your life.

    I notice there are two types of wet dreams. One is caused by sexual dreams. You will lose some sperm during this. They are caused by sexual dream images and not by your prostate's physiological need to empty. So it's safe to stop them. The other type is cause simply by your biological need to release build up prostate fluid. There emissions will not involve any sexual images during a dream. And often they will happen when you are not even dreaming; during non-rem sleep cycle. These you probably just let happen because they are simply a biological need and probably won't release any sperm anyway but just small amounts of prostate fluid.
     
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  5. Agonist

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    As other have said, it's completely fine/healthy as long as you simply held it in using your pelvic muscles and didn't cover your urethra with your finger or anything crazy like that. Anything that may have "backed up" as a result will spill out naturally either the next time you pee or just gradually. Absolutely nothing wrong with what you did.
     
  6. DeepSeaDiver

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    So not stop an ejaculation my physical means, ie, putting your finger over your penis. If you can wake up and “will” yourself not to cum, then fine. I would take a nocturnal emission as something the body needs to get rid of, and that’s okay.
     
  7. bengtal (marcus)

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    This just happened to me as well. Wet dreams have even become more rare for me at this point. In the dream context I started asking someone (who i was potentially lusty towards) about their shoes and got down to the ground to touch their shoes, they likewise started lifting their heel and rotating their foot around to accommodate my inspection. I became aware of a mutual lust and suddenly felt i was about to have a wet dream. Struggled to wake up (like paralyzed lol), awoke and rose up as fast as I could and started walking/pacing hard, and restraining what would have been the orgasm and ejaculation. I have managed to do this a few times before. Mostly successful this time, but a few drops of fluid did squeeze out of my penis. I knew already it was not a full ejactulation, but the fluid was milky whitish/cloudy. I've been searching for information about this still being precum and not full semen. Some information online indicates others have also identified white precum, and that it is not necessarily full-blown semen, still precum. I always feel worried or like I'm in an endless cycle I can never control... BUT this time is not so bad. Gonna go exercise some now, go jogging and forget/regenerate.
     
  8. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    Wet dreams are normal, natural, male biological functioning, quite indicative even of a male in balance with his physiology. There's no need to stop or repress them, and they never count as relapse, but just the opposite - real healing is taking place, the body taking care of itself, not in need of voluntary addictive abuse. Getting up all agitated and frantic and crazy is more likely to contribute to ejaculation fears, making your very addiction more of a compulsion with such repressed behavior - you can also become very obsessive-compulsive and develop paranoia about your own male body. That is very psychologically destructive, I think. Let nature take care of itself and don't interfere with addictions like MO or false recovery concepts as in thinking wet dreams are taboo. They're not - just the opposite. They're normal.
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  9. theTank7

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    This happened to me the first time I had a wet dream on my detox (I’m day 30 today, this was like day 12?), woke up about to ejaculate and thought I was pissing the bed so held it hard until it went away, by the time I realized what was happening and relaxed only a little bit came out. I tried doing some research and I think my semen went into the bladder, medically called “retrograde ejaculation”. It apparently isn’t harmful, but I had serious blue balls and felt very sore down there for a day or two. I personally wouldn’t make it a habit, it’s not a relapse to wet dream, and your body has to go from a situation of making a ton of semen every day thinking you are jerking off 3x a day to making a normal amount so as it figures out what that new amount is the body has to get rid of the excess semen somehow.
     

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