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Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Yassineopter, Feb 12, 2019.

  1. Yassineopter

    Yassineopter Fapstronaut

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    I want ask your opinion my friends if is it preferred to go to a psy ? because I feel not good i has no plaisir or desire in life like a zombie
     
  2. One Strong Girl

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    I don’t really understand all of what you said, but I assume you feel sducidal/depressed and ask if you should see a psychiatrist? If so ,then you should get help.
     
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  3. 1 Tes. 4:3

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    Probably going to a psychologist may help, yes.
     
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  4. One Strong Girl

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    Amm “suicidal” is what I meant.
     
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  5. Yassineopter

    Yassineopter Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for your reply
    I'm not an English good speaker this is why you don't understand all what i said so
    Did you go to a psy before ?
    For me it will be my second time because I used pills in the past (Antidepressants) and I didn't want to do it again.
     
  6. Yassineopter

    Yassineopter Fapstronaut

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    Hello my friend and thanks for your reply
    I love people who try to help
    Did you visit a psy before ?
     
  7. Marik757

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    You can visit an psychologist, it helps to seek professional help sometimes.

    If you don't want to be on medication let them know. Ask them for advice, and activities which you can practice to better yourself.

    I've seen an psy for about 9 months. It wasnt until I felt so negative about myself that I turned the conversations into talk about wanting to be on meds. Big mistake...
     
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  8. Yassineopter

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    Hello my friend and thank you for your reply
    Please tell me what did you mean by big mistake
    For me i work (my job make me sick) and i go to gym and i go to the university all this just to get out of the black hole (depression) but nothing works still alone nervous
    When I used medicines before It helps me to become more productive and more social but with a great risk
    I which you understand me
     
  9. One Strong Girl

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    You’re welcome and don’t worry about your english. I’m not a native speaker either.
    I’ve never been to one, but I believe that it’s impor rant to seek help from others when we aren’t feeling well.

    Like the other member said, let them know you don’t want to be taking medication and see if therapy would help.
    I wish you all the best.
     
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  10. 1 Tes. 4:3

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    I have not been to a psy, but have friends that are psychologist and I am positive that they do help.

    In fact, only to be heared by a person that pays attention and has wisdom to help usually is very helpful. I have not been to psychologist, but have had that persons who hear in my life, and that helps a lot. The main person that hears and helps for me is God actually (Philippians 4:6-8)
     
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  11. Marik757

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    I went in with the mindset of looking for an quick fix. So I asked about antidepressants and decided to give it an try. I hated it, I felt like an zombie. I existed, but couldn't feel things emotionally. Because of my negative mindset I set myself up for failure. If I feel negative about myself I act negative towards myself, and about others. If I stay positive i act more positive towards myself, and others.

    I started putting myself around positive people. Getting rid of toxic people. I started to implementing some advice given to me. Like when i was nervous talking to people. Instead of making direct eye contact I now look in between the eyes until I felt more comfotable.
     
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  12. Yassineopter

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    Hello friends this is me again hhh
    Your help makes me happy and know that there is people around the world helpful thanks a lot
     
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