Natural male masturbation?

Thats ridiculous

Homosexuality is just as a sexuality as heterosexuality. Its rarer but its a real sexuality that isn't ''learned'' you CAN NOT learn to be attracted to the same sex. Its not psychologically possible sex is too deep rooted for someone to come along and change it.

Its possible to realise later on you can be bi-sexual but to turn from homosexual to completely utterly heterosexual? Its impossible!!

 

To prevent something requires identifying cause.

 

Have you tried sex with women?

 

If that were true then we could blame anything on our sexuality instead of taking responsibility for things like sexual assault, hate crime, and anything else people could argue was caused by their experience and not their actions.

There is nothing wrong with deciding to prefer men but don't tell me it's any different than all the other thousands of choices we make each day.

If it weren't a choice, i could justify doing exactly what people are trying to avoid by saying it's not a choice, just because i could argue that if it's not a choice, then in the advent it evolves into something monstruous (like a lot of things do) it would be necessary to extinguish it. Now imagine that viewpoint developed centuries ago, and imagine how much pain and suffering it would have caused just because people didn't want to admit that what they choose to like is just a choice. There's no point in hiding behind some trivial idea like whether or not it's a choice, how about coming out and saying "It's my fucking choice, deal with it."? That to me is much more powerful than "i can't help who i am".

Update:
I realized that there is no way to prove this argument either way. If some people want to say their homosexuality isn't a choice, it makes no difference, they will still grow around that if they choose to.
However, i still believe that acting on this internal influence is still a choice.

 

No.

 

Hey guys I need your help

I've been going through GAYOCD the past two weeks and have been constantly trying to masturbate to transgender and gay porn. I have only had genital responses in regards to this untill today .

I uploaded images of a transgender women and constantly thoughts of giving it oral now after 1 hour of attempting to masturbate i ejaculate. This is the first time is have ever happened and I am totally creeped out.

I always masturbate to women and have had sex with women without having any issues. This is the first time ever in the 23 years ive lived where I've actually ejaculate to a gay thought i am really scared

Is this cause ive been attempting to test myself for the past 2 weeks to transgender porn and trying to see wether I ejaculate to these thoughts. Or could i actually be gay

Too be honest i didnt enjoy the thought at all and feel disgusted in this

Someone please help me

 

This is really scaring me and I don't know what to do with my life anymore, guys I am really fucking scared, I feel like being gay isnt my thing however after what just happened i feel like I've been in denial the whole time

 

You could just be bisexual.

Or its possible excessive porn use has skewed your arousal or something.

Just stop watching porn and let yourself feel whatever.

 

Okay thanks cause this has been really creeping me out, and I have lost sleep over it

 

I never had this issue, it's the first time ive watched this type of porn for 3 years as I've also had GOCD again. This is the first time this has happened

 

Dude, chill thef out.
Can you hold the idea inside your head?
Can you see all the different parts of it?
What is the literal worst thing that could happen? You like something new?
It's the human experience, individual. It's beautiful.

 

*Sniff*
It's so beautiful guys!

 

For me when I think of natural masturbation I imagine our ancestors. Our ancestors saw maybe a few dozen maybe a hundred people at most in their entire life. Even when we started living in villages the majority of people stayed in that village and only knew those people for their whole life. With that in mind I imagine when men would masturbate they would do it like in the following:

1. Masturbate to the one or two pretty girls in the entire group/village
2. Masturbate when going without sex for a long time (probably months since everyone was busy back then), but probably not really fantasize much while doing it.
3. Masturbate to their partner

 

Masturbation is probably best when done very very sparingly.

 

I agree otherwise you get seriously addicted to it

 

Its so easy to get addicted though. What is it about our current society that churns out people with this addiction. Other than porn etc...

Its strange.

 

I agree. Perhaps instant gratification? Or it’s in wired in us as males? Either way, it’s pretty powerful

 

In majority of cases humans do not "choose" there sexuality it is genetically dictated, as the article about the tribes acknowledges. In small tribes that are cut off from larger society its not suprising to me that some genetic traits dont surface in the same way they have in the rest of the world.

Hetrosexual humans do not make a choice around puberty to be attracted to woman anymore than gays choose at puberty to be attrated to the same sex.

 

I actually don't know what role genetics plays. Do you have any external links i can check out?

 

From my personal experience I didn't choose.