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Found out my mom is cheating. What do I do?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by PlsSaveMe, Jan 30, 2019.

  1. Gotham Outlaw

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    Butternut crinklefries
     
  2. overclocked

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    What you should do? A DNA test to find out who's your dad :p
     
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  5. Retentionman

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  6. CTRL + DEL

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  7. Retentionman

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  8. EthanW.

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  9. CTRL + DEL

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    Banned Cunts.

    That's what we'll be if we continue to go off topic. :(
     
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  10. Retentionman

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  11. Retentionman

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    Lol
     
  12. Jennica

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    Just something to think about, there could be far more possibilities to this. hence why if you are concerned talk to your parents. It sounds that you are making assumptions based on very limited information and anything can be explained away.
    Here are other possible explanations.

    What if, your parents are talking a break, talking to lawyers. Thinking about separating and they are trying to figure it out before they talk with you.

    What if they are staying married on paper only and have an understanding where they both have a separate life?

    What if your dad is lifelong PA and they have been on working through a tuff recovery.

    What if your mom is talking with a sponsor of her own. Interesting thought what if your parents are on NF anonymously.

    What if your dad is really stressed about work, corporations restructure and screw over employees all the time. What if he’s stressed about having to be out of town and your mom is planning something of a surprise for him or you as a family.

    The point is unless you have an open and honest communication with them it’s all speculation and added worries/stress you don’t need.

    It’s ok to ask them if they are doing ok, is their marriage ok. It’s ok to tell them you love them and you are worried, if there are problems it’s ok to talk with you. Communication is about setting a safe place and it’s ok for you to do that too.
     
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  14. Retentionman

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  15. brilliantidiot

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    @Rio what are you saying here man?
     
  16. EthanW.

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    He's saying if your husband is cheating on you with a webcam shoot em with an airgun. Legit response.
     
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  17. EthanW.

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    But, for real @Rio , regardless of whether it's more wrong to watch P than it is to cheat, they both cross a threshold of things that are unacceptable.

    If the mother responds in this way, you know she is deflecting pretty hard. Hypocrisy or no, the question is if she's cheating, and if the answer is yes then she has to take responsibility for it. Period.

    This is a family's future we're talking about, so it's counterproductive to get into a pissing contest over who has the bigger beam in their eye. You can condemn immorality and refuse to bear false witness on it's behalf; that's called being a model for truth and restoration.
     
  18. 4DCreator

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    Ask her why is she locking the door, why she speaks to H, and if dad knows about it or she wants you to tell him. SPAM REMOVED (spam code #001) - REPORT TO MODERATION.
     
  19. Dimitri the king 2

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    I am sorry for all this. I had the same thing, but somehow I did not notice I guess I was stupid and naive.
    I remember after my brother's wedding we were driving in the car (Mom, Dad and sister) home and it was strangely quiet. When we came home I went to sleep, I look at the room and only see my mom in there. I asked where is my Dad and she said Downstairs watching TV, but it was complete darkness and I there was no sound.
    I should have figured it out then, but my mom's behavior was normal, she managed to trick me without any problems. How is life now?

     
  20. I'm saying take more notice of how the partners react to porn addiction on this forum. Doesn't matter if you don't think of it as cheating if your partner does.
     
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