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Prostate Milking

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by takethecharge, Jan 3, 2014.

  1. takethecharge

    takethecharge Fapstronaut

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    What do you guys think of it? Self prostate milking without any touch to the penile area.
    Dumping all the fluids in prostate and possibly achieving full body orgasm (or not).
    All of that while not thinking at all about any porn, without any fantasizing or imagining anything. Just focusing on your body.

    It could be done every 2 weeks of successful no PMO streak or every 30 days.
    Is it cheating and will it sabotage the progress? I didn't find anything on that subject.
    I want your opinions.

    From bodybuilding forums:


    Edit: I should of used the term Prostate Massage. Now I've actually found some info:

     
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  2. Angriff

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    Well.... it is what you want to be,if you think it is cheating it is but if you find a way to justify it it is not, but i believe that we are here to quit any form of deviant behavior and "self milking" sounds pretty weird.
    I would not do that, i find it even more strange than masturbation. We try to justify masturbation, porn, "prostate milking" :D Any of these roads are just avoiding to face the problem. Everything is inside mind, i mean im now at the day 41 and i still do not feel like my prostate will bust its way out so....
     
  3. Rocco

    Rocco New Fapstronaut

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    +1 this is just weird and would be cheating in a different way
     
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  4. ChrisHaven

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    Really sounds as if you are looking for someone to tell you that its ok, so that you can masturbate. Masturbating is masturbating- whether you stroke yourself or stick a finger in your butt. The result is the same.
     
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  5. dean058

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    Just my 2 cents worth. The way I understand it, dopamine isn't released just from masterbation. Dopamine is released into the brain at orgasm, after all that's why we have sex. Makes no difference if it's with a partner or by hand. Take my word for it, and I'm not gay by any stretch of the imagination, I spent a good deal of time with specially designed toys learning how the have a prostate orgasm and they are wild. I stopped because I read that if you do it too often it can raise your PSA levels. The reason for stopping PMO is to rid the brains need for dopamine, to attain reboot and start to live a normal life doing normal things with normal people whether straight or gay.
     
  6. -DS-

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    I myself go by a rule tjat if I have to ask myself if something is cheating then it usually is.

    There are whole websites dedicated to benefits of prostate massage but I am skeptical. It's not something we do naturally and in my opinion wet dreams are there for the exact reason you would give yourself s prostate massage.
     
  7. takethecharge

    takethecharge Fapstronaut

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    Thank you guys for your responses, I've read some more on the subject those couple of days ago and then just dropped it for some reason. Now that I had 2 days of the weekend in which I unnecessarily aroused myself and read some sexual related stuff and one sober day (today) where I didn't spend an ounce of my time/attention to any stuff that even revolves around PMO, I think I have a fresher look on that subject of prostate massaging.

    And you guys are totally right, I've been trying to convince myself that ejaculation abstinence is somehow going to get the prostate bloated along the way and that I should reward myself after either 14 or 30 days.

    But that's just the wrong direction to follow. It's quite opposite to the proper reboot, like you just said - it's quite simply pursuing more kinky stuff.
    I've been underestimating the power of reboot and why it's crucial to get rid of the need of dopamine rush.
    And my current streak hasn't been that hard either. I've recently gone through a 17 day streak and looks like my body got used to MO abstinence.

    If I ever go into similar rationalizations I will just revisit this thread.
     
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  8. rgdfh

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    Does prostate milking prevent wet dreams?

    Can avoiding wet dreams provide indefinite avoidance of orgasms? Can massaging the prostate without orgasms reduce semen and thus prevent wet dreams?

    Do we have wet dream orgasms because semen builds up or because we haven't had an orgasm in a long time? Has anyone in the medical community ever done an experiment to find out?

    I would have to believe that wet dream orgasms have some lowering of sexual energy.
     
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  9. jbastoniv

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    The answer would be yes, if you milk your prostrate you shouldn't have WDs. WDs are there to clean you out when the time becomes necessary. If you are not edging, getting yourself aroused (i.e., P!) or M then you should not have prostrate issues.
     
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  11. rgdfh

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    I thought wet dreams could be avoided to avoid all orgasms, so that isn't cheating. It is only cheating if you use the prostate to have an orgasm.

    I don't know what having a wet dream does so the mental state because I like not having orgasms, it makes me feel good and gives me lots of sexual energy.

    I haven't had a wet dream yet and want to experience it. But after that I'm not sure.

    Prostate milking isn't exactly an ideal thought and maybe I wouldn't do it, but just hypothetically out of curiosity I wanted to know if it would have a benefit by allowing one to avoid all orgasms.

    In order to do that one would have to do a mental release of sufficient prostate fluid to prevent wet dream orgasms. One would have to not stimulate the penis while doing this or it would just result in a prostate stimulated orgasm.

    Like I said I'm not sure if this would even work because enough prostate fluid may not be able to be drained without orgasm, it may not be very pleasant, it may cause irritation the tissue and bleeding. Also, it may not prevent the orgasm from happening while sleeping.

    I'm also not completely sure of the effect of a wet dream on the state of mind in the days and weeks after. Maybe somebody who has them can tell me. I've never gone long enough to have them yet, but I'm justing thinking ahead hypothetically about how it all works.
     
  12. fapequalsdeath

    fapequalsdeath Fapstronaut

    Yeah... I can definately agree that prostate stimulation is very pleasurable... but it's cheating man don't try to say black is white.
     
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  13. jbastoniv

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    First of all, ejaculation and orgasm are two different events. We associate them with the same event because all of our lives we have had them together. But you can learn to separate them. Most edgers can attest to this or anyone who has practiced tantra. A prostrate massage/milking does not cause an orgasm in itself, so there for all you are doing is milking the prostrate, causing it to spasm out the fluid.

    There are other ways to stimulate (devices) that over a long period of time is suppose to cause entire body orgasms. I have personally never experimented or experienced them. But from what I read it is a long process to get there.

    I agree with most here, if you are rebooting stay away from this. Again, as long as you are not edging or stimulating yourself (viewing P or P substitutes) then you and your prostrate will be fine. This is your brain trying to rationalize, and my bet is if you start with that before you know it, your are right back into PMO!

    Stay strong.
     
  14. headedup

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    Ha ha I've never heard of this either. I would suggest going full hard mode, because regardless of whether milking works, it is not allowing your mind or brain to learn self control and inner peace with urges.
     
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  15. Lars_1998

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    ...Prostata-Fun is OK.(its Possible,to get a Orgasm,but you must be fxxxxxg good!)
    ... there is nothing to shame !
     
  16. Davidphd1866

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    I have tried it a number of times. One of those times I DID have an amazing entire body orgasm. I could never seem to duplicate it though. I gave up trying. And now, in hard mode, I think I better steer clear. Because when I tried, if I couldn't get that "total body wave" orgasm, I ended up finishing with conventional masturbation instead anyways.
     
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  17. Lars_1998

    Lars_1998 Fapstronaut

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    ... possibly,next Streak,(after this 14Day-Streak) is 1 Month,HARDCORE-Mode ON .... this Time,i still LEARN,about me !
     
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