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Mentally prepared..

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by alphapstronaut, Dec 24, 2018.

  1. Hello NoFap community!

    This is my first ever post. I discovered NoFap about 1 year and a half ago. It has really changed my views of my porn addiction since I had no idea that more people had such a similar problem than mine. However, in such a long time, I have been unable to abstain for a lot more than 2 weeks from porn. In fact my record is about 16 days once and like 14 days another time. That is it! After that I have been able to complete 4 to 5 days cycles occasionally but always end up relapsing. Porn has created a big problem in my life. Right now I think I watch porn about 2 - 4 times a week. Doesn't seem like much but this "low" amount is because, for the past few months, I have been working on a new job with a sick schedule that has distracted me from porn... sometimes. I have noticed that I can´t spend much time alone at home. My last relapse was about 2 days ago, and it really felt like a "no more" moment. I've had a lot of those in my past and end up relapsing, but this time feels different. I'm actually taking an active attitude towards my rebooting. That brings me here, with a fresh new account excited to read and learn from you guys! My goal is to eliminate porn from my life to the point where I don't depend on it anymore, and use the 2 hours of porn watching that I spend per session (yes, 2 DAMN HOURS) on something more productive and calming, and feel like and alpha male (hence, my username). I want to learn about the finance world (I'm an engineer looking to enter the finance industry), learn to play the guitar, draw more, meditate, meet new people, and much more!

    Enough about me! I want to meet new people on this forum. All types of people. The struggling ones, the ones with success stories, anyone! I think every single one of you has the capability of becoming an alpha male, a guy of respect and dignity. Not a jerk and abusive person, like many times is depicted as an alpha male. I guy respected by everyone around him, especially girls, a guy that doesn't need someone else's approval to have confidence. Pretty much, the best version of yourself...

    Much love and respect,
    Alphastronaut
     
  2. For Homeland!!

    For Homeland!! Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to forum, hope you will find the power to fight against PMO here. I wish you good luck mate.
     
  3. Thanks a lot, good luck to you too
     
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