Almost relapse

Ok guys I don't know if this thread is in the right forum, if it's not please let me know and link the right forum so I will move it.
I have almost relapse today, I'm not sure if I have to consider it a relapse or not, by the way I'm almost not sure if I'm addicted to porn and masturbation (and sex/porn chat) or no. By the way the fact is that I have log in a porn chat just an hour ago, I was feeling horny and I had think of find a girl I had chatted with some times ago. I had not found her but I had start a couple of conversation, look at a couple of pics then I think of what I was doing and simply stop and closed the chat. All of this without touching or jerking. So guys what do you think I have to consider this a relapse or not?
Also because I now feel not really ashamed neither so bad, just a little worried but nothing really "exceptional".
I don't know if take this as a victory or a near misses. Thanks to all for reading

 

Ty for answering this has made me feeling good

 

Ok, first of all really thanks for answering me . To be honest I have kind of experimented the first "way" you have wrote, so my PMO derives from some sort of problem, not always by the way.
The second thing you said I don't think I have never really fully do it, the only thing is that I have skip some chores or being up till late. I have never really isolated myself, no social anxiety, no problems in socializing, maybe there was an episode of something like that that happened one day, but it was only a one time thing.
For the physical aspects, not really any physical problem, except maybe that I had a little less energy. And in the end no over specialization of people in my life, desensitisation maybe, or maybe it was only the shame that I was feeling for myself to make me feel that way, by the way I had always overcome that only by passing time with the people and not isolating. By the way I had other symptoms like being "unable" to stop or at least not having full control and watching more. I had also always stop when I was feeling that is too much but then I had restart again. Feeling down and ashamed for spending that time on it. All of this is a recent thing, this increase in porn/chat usage for me started just some months ago, before I have done it in a normal way (the chat is also a new thing, I started chatting a year ago).
Again thank you for answering me, I hope I will understand if it is addiction or not, in the meantime I will continue with the program.
Alexanderhatespmo really thanks to you to have shared your experience

 

Oh and in regards to being in a virtual world, yes I have experienced it being like detached from the reality, but there was only until I didn't get in touch with people, and tbh I have experienced it even before in my life, when I had no problems with porn or so.

 

Ty to all guys for the support, but in the end I do have relapsed, just tonight. By the way I don't feel so much angry with me, at least not if now I will restart NoFap again. To be honest part of my relapse it was a test to understand if I'm addicted or not to porn (my fault so) but the second time was only lust so. I don't think I'm totally addicted (more like, I was becoming addicted and I recognized it), but surely it's a bad habit that will lead me to real addiction if I don't treat it right now.
So again Ty all, it was 16 days NoFap, now I have to just restart. Ty all for support again.