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Boob addiction

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by randomguest, Nov 20, 2018.

  1. randomguest

    randomguest Fapstronaut

    I stopped nofap because I don't want to spend much time reading blogs here. I prefer studying for my lessons in university. That does not mean that I don't try to stay away from porn. I keep masturbation, but instead of doing it every day as I used to, I do it only one timer per 2-3 days. My big problem is that I can't stop watching porn. Its my 2nd day now without porn and I feel frustrated. Its not the first time I am trying nofap, but after few weeks of giving up its hard again to abstain from it.

    A big problem I face is that I love boobs. I love them so much that I am thinking about them all day. I google pics with nice boobs (not naked) all the time. I really want to stop watching porn but I love boobs so much. They look so nice but that evil ruins me.

    Thanks for reading !
     
  2. We are naturally attracted to the curves and female form. This isn't bad in and of itself. Many of us have a problem with obsessing and getting stuck on these things.
    In time from staying clear of triggering things and things we get stuck on, our minds start to handle things and see things a bit differently. More able to handle things, see things and just move on to whatever we we're doing a moment before.
     
  3. countitjoy5

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    Breasts are for infants, do you want to be a titty-baby for the rest of your life? That really turns women off you know - they want a man who hasn't sexualized an infantile desire to nurse. How is masturbating once every two to three days going to help you at all?
     
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  4. Tannhauser

    Tannhauser Fapstronaut

    I have found that the only way I am able to get rid of Porn is to get rid of Masturbation. For me they are inextricably linked and doing one always lead eventually to doing the other.
     
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  5. IGY

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    That is not normal behaviour. An attraction to breasts is one thing, but obsessing about them all day is something very different. Masturbating every couple of days is not helping, as no doubt you are visualising the boobs you are thinking about, cumming on them etc. The pictures you are looking at are not porn (if not bare), but they are porn substitutes. It sounds like your addiction is running at a high level. Abstinence is the solution to all this. You must try man. Your counter of 89 days is meaningless. You gotta get serious.
     
  6. randomguest

    randomguest Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your responses. Some of you blame masturbation but I for now I just want to get rid of porn. I know that pictures are substitutes and this is why I don't like it. I want to get rid of this addiction.

    There are many reasons why someone wants to quit porn and my reason is not because I want to be attractive to girls. So yea, I don't care if I will be baby or man. I just want to live my life as I want. I don't care if I will be attractive. I just want to be free and each addiction hurts us. Porn is an addiction. Masturbation maybe it is, maybe not. Sure thing is that we are animals and we survived all these years because of sex. So I don't think masturbation is a big deal for me now.
     
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  7. IGY

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    Exactly. Masturbation is not sex. What's worse is that it also causes dopamine rushes in the brain - the very thing that is the problem with porn. So, once you are addicted to porn, masturbation becomes something that must stop. Maybe not for all time (some return to masturbation later), but during your reboot, to allow the brain to heal from all this hyper-normal dopamine stimulation. P/subs are also doing the same thing. Every time you look at them you need to reset your counter.
     
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  8. Oh Henry

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    I 100% agree .The two go hand in hand (no pun intended) only way I managed to stay away from P is to stop M
     
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  9. Lol bro.. read what you just wrote. You are a man. This is the most normal thing in the world. This is something normal that you are just going to have to embrace and deal with unless you want to cut off your own dick. please chill out.
     
  10. Rehab101

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    I am a boob maniac too. In fact my pmo history all involved with boobs. I too have hard time not looking at hot women with nice boobs. The root of such evil is the sexual fantasy. You should not reject it because it just comes back stronger. You need to embrace that fact and think that you are better than that. Focus your energy in something productive.

    I probably got boob fetish from watching anime or cartoon with big boobs at a young age,so stay away from those materials.
     
  11. Trafalgar Law

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    Anyway, Thinking over and over again about tits and masturbation is not good. Try not to think about a pink elephant, you cant stop thinking about it. So, its the same, try to live without that thoughts, try to enjoy little things and focus yourself in a new life instead of living without it.
     
  12. man do i love me some boobs...
    that's not a problem.

    compulsively looking for them on the internet and masturbating is a problem. Stop blaming a natural attraction to boobs and just reboot. cut the wanking and the porn substitutes and you will be fine
     
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  13. Veritech

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    Boobs (or Big Breasts) is just another genre of pornography.

    As far as recovery goes, it is no different than any other genre of pornography.

    Porn is porn, masturbation is masturbation, PMO is PMO. The genre is irrelevant.

    Let's all work together to rid ourselves of this unhealthy and destructive habit that we all have in common.
     
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