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Insecurity.

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Hardmode-Monk, Nov 3, 2018.

  1. Hardmode-Monk

    Hardmode-Monk Fapstronaut

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    I really wish I had a bigger dick. Girls seem to have more pleasure to haveing a cock going deeper. White women fetish black men for their really big dicks. As for me I am a scrawny, nerdy and a musician. I am also in a poor family. So I have nothing going for me. The girls on my University campus take one look at me and they are right not to be attracted to me.

    So yeah. My love life really sucks. After what woman gets her panties wet to me playing a Beethoven violin piece.
     
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  2. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    So you wanna be Dirk Digglar.
     
  3. AUTiger7222

    AUTiger7222 Fapstronaut

    Penis size is not that important. It's how you use it that makes all the difference in the world. Don't believe in the porn lie that penis size is all that matters. How can I say that? Check this out, real life women explaining their penis size preferences. Just Google it and read away to your heart's content. Many actually say that they'd rather be with a guy with a slightly smaller penis because those don't hurt like the big ones that hit their cervix. Here's something else you might not be considering, girth is more important than length. Also, I don't know how big your penis size is, but I'm sure you're at least average size if not bigger as far as length goes. Average length is only 5-6 inches.

    Last bit of advice I'd give you is this, CONFIDENCE!!! Women love confidence!! If you are only 5 inches, big deal. Act like you've got a 10 inch cock and go at it! Trust me, women will eat that up a whole lot more than if you're always telling yourself "it's not big enough." That's such a turnoff to women. Women don't want to be with a man where you've always got to pamper his ego about his penis size.
     
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  4. Hardmode-Monk

    Hardmode-Monk Fapstronaut

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    Yeah. You are right. I try to be confident but they never like me when I am confident.
     
  5. torrace

    torrace Fapstronaut

    Confidence definitely helps!
    Ambition and goals in life are also great!

    If you are adventurous, have done a few adventurous activities, it could help break the ice with good openers

    You mentioned you are a musician, that could be a good opener too

    Ladies, do share your thoughts! Let @Hardmode-Monk know that penis size is not the main factor you look for in a partner.
     
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  6. Hardmode-Monk

    Hardmode-Monk Fapstronaut

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    I play classical music. It isn't a pussy wetter.
     
  7. AUTiger7222

    AUTiger7222 Fapstronaut

    Then you're not just meeting the right women. If a woman doesn't accept you then fuck her. Move on to the next one!! There is someone out there for you!
     
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  8. AUTiger7222

    AUTiger7222 Fapstronaut

    Dude, you really need to change your mindset. You have the wrong approach to this. You're too focused on trying to get to the sex part and not focused on the relationship part. You have to start with the relationship part before you get to the sex part unless all you want is a one night stand, which I don't advise you do because then it will only make your confidence problem worse.

    You play music!! Who cares that it's only classical? The fact that you have that talent that you can share with women is a plus. Find the right woman and she's going to love that aspect of you.
     
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  9. Hardmode-Monk

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    Thanks. It doesn't help that her and her friend give me funny looks. I made a mistake approaching her. Maybe she was too attractive for me?
     
  10. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    I mean, you don't really have to let playing classical music define you. I would personally rock that shit, but.....
    That single thing does not make you desirable or not.
    Your character, confidence, respect, aspirations, quirks, consideration for females, attentiveness, intelligence, self-love, ect, are what will get you laid.
    Go find you a cute flute player :)
     
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  11. Hardmode-Monk

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    Helpful advice thanks. But I can't stand my conservatory peers.
     
  12. AUTiger7222

    AUTiger7222 Fapstronaut

    Why do you think that there are some guys that are only 5 or 6 and they can land a 8 or 10?
     
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  13. Hardmode-Monk

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    I don't know. I keep having akward interactions with women. They always act funny around me. Maybe I am unattractive or too weird. I am not sure.
     
  14. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Yeah, so maybe you have a slight narcissist problem? Not diagnosing, but who calls humans "conservatory peers"?

    Conservatory...people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones

    Maybe the cheerleading squad would contain less conservatory peers you'd despise?
     
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  15. AUTiger7222

    AUTiger7222 Fapstronaut

    Confidence is the answer!! Women know that you're nervous and uncomfortable being around them and talking to you and it turns them off. Women don't want a guy who is afraid of them. They want guys that have confidence. If you're comfortable around her then that makes her comfortable too. It keeps things from being awkward.
     
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  16. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Because they're funny as shit, ambitious, unique, inspiring, meet the girls needs, & will love her unconditionally regardless of her beauty.

    Plus, isn't a 10 really in the eye of the beholder?
     
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  17. AUTiger7222

    AUTiger7222 Fapstronaut

    Absolutely. But that still doesn't change my point, which is those guys have confidence!! Everything starts and ends with confidence and being comfortable with who you are! If you know who you are and are confidant with that, you're going to go far with the ladies!!
     
  18. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    I was agreeing with you ;)
    Yes, all of that encompasses confidence; there's a fine line of being confident & being a prick.
    It's a wicked web
     
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  19. Hardmode-Monk

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    True. But I find that I have nothing in cimmonwith people. So it is hard to be confident. I dont talk with the trendy shit.
     
  20. Hardmode-Monk

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    I don't know. I do try to be confident and it is hard to make a conversation. I start talking and I quickly run out of things to say. To be honest it gets harder and harder for me to talk to people.
     

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