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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. EyeofHorus26

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  2. Rockstar Hunk

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  3. RiseToGreatness

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    the first weeks are always the worst. hang in there. it´s worth it.
     
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  4. RiseToGreatness

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    journaling, motivation, whatever... every day is good to remind yourself to why you´re doing nofap. the addicted mind lurks everywhere, so you got to keep focus high.
     
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  5. RiseToGreatness

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    why leave? it´s there any other option? ;)

    motivate yourself, learn from relapse, and start again when you feel ready.
    always follow this rule, then one day, one try will be the last one.
     
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  6. RiseToGreatness

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    of course, your brain will naturally rewired to regular levels of hormones. but it´s a good advice to do physical exercise, that will help for a good balance of hormones. also it´s good for the body :)
     
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  7. Btai

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  8. Angeles777

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    Thanks, knowing there is people tha support you give me the strength to continue and focus on my goal to be free and clean of pmo , I really appreciate your words. GOD BLESS YOU FRIEND.
     
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  9. oneotwo

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    90 day:emoji_call_me:
    Next 180 day:emoji_dart:
     
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  10. Nekkhamma

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    0/90...Damn, relapsed. Can't believe it, but then again I can. Got pulled in by an old porn substitute, justified it to myself and it just snowballed. I could say many things, but bottom line I just lost my determination and focus and the addiction snuck in there. Thank goodness for this website and the support I have in my life. May I not lose focus; this feels like shit.
     
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  11. Arwin

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    Thanks
    I need this as my motivation.
     
  12. Cowboy72

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    Day 103. Feeling pretty good. Feel like I went thru some withdrawals a few days ago. Kinda shut down. But feeling a lot better now. Don't want to go back to that life.
     
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  13. AtticusEnd

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    Feeling really tired today; this has given my brain the opportunity to try to wander to urges, but I will let it rest there! Trying to keep present with my thoughts and focus on my breathing helps...

    So; yeah... Busy few days, hence not posting... The weekend is over with and I have 80 days under my belt. 10 days to go until the "official" reboot, but I will see how I am feeling at that point. In terms of where I go after the 90 days, I do not see much change from where I am now. My addiction has always been more about using M as a substitute for dealing with my emotional state effectively; so I do not see an occasion where I can ever go back to M without risking a relapse on that emotional crutch... P is out of my life for good now, as that just spiralled out of control for me and is not a place I can go back to now. So that just leaves O... As I am in a monogamous relationship the question of when O will happen is not just down to me. I am placing my trust in my SO that her wounds created by my addiction can be healed, and that she will choose to be with me again. In the meantime; I will continue with my meditation and yoga practice to become the best person I can be...

    Peace
     
  14. rewiring4good

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    Damn!But well done for getting back on track so quickly. Check out this video
     
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  15. RiseToGreatness

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    congratulations!!! :)
     
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  16. Nekkhamma

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    Awesome @AtticusEnd! Thanks for sharing
     
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  17. Nekkhamma

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    Thanks for sharing @rewiring4good! I'm single and trying to lead a celibate life for the most part, but these things can most definitely relate with my relationship to myself. Thanks for the encouragement!
     
  18. RiseToGreatness

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    that´s the downfall. "just a snack, just a sip, what harm can it done?"

    you can´t do that bro. you´re on a treatment precisely against those things. that´s why you must focus on totally different things, or else you´ll always have that feeling that something is missing in your life.

    i will give an example of mine, yesterday i was watching "the shining" from kubrick, and there´s this scene of the naked lady in the bathtub, i totally forgot about that scene. so the movie was going on and when that scene enters i noticed that i was checking the lady "ei very nice". but that was the maximum, when the scene was over i continue watching the movie regulary. now i was alone in my living room, imagine if i start touching myself or if after the movie i go to imdb to find what actress was that... think about it bro. i started an intencional search, when would i stop? how would i stop?

    go again when you feel ready my friend. you can do it.
     

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