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How many times have you all relapsed before completing 90 days?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by YeetBoi21, Oct 9, 2018.

  1. SandsOfTime

    SandsOfTime Fapstronaut

    Till the time you are trying, you are on correct path. Streak are just some X numbers. What matters is the distance between porn and you.keep maintain longest distances.
     
  2. Tankus

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    Hey Nama, this is the stage I'm at man. I'm on 112 days about now, and I have seen fucking incredible growth, but I think because I was never even a daily fapper I have like a, slower kind of reset thing. So now I'm going for 180 days. To anyone reading this tho the counters are just a rough guideline, the goal should always be complete eradication of porn in my opinion. Because when I got to 90 days I almost fkin relapsed cause I was like ahh I'm sweet now, when obviously not.
    I'm gonna keep doing this for as long as It takes, until I don't even consider it a possibility or temptation to watch porn. These positive affirmations and benefits just keep fucking stacking up so it will build your strength, hang in there sons.
     
  3. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    Oh my, "a couple of times". I started trying to quit in 2010 and although I managed some longer streaks (one for 22 months) I rellapsed too many times to count.
    I'm guessing the same. Between the start of me trying to give up porn and the start of this current streak I must of rellapsed somewhere around 70 - 120 times, something like that.
    Me too. This place has worked for me.
     
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  4. YeetBoi21

    YeetBoi21 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the confidence boost my dudes

    Also, why can I not set a profile picture? Just says contact admin or something. Doesn’t say it’s too big or small
     
  5. Mattew

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    I totally agree. The thing that scares me is not having a single relapse after a good streak, but gradually getting back to pmo daily or things like that.
     
  6. Headspace

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    And it should totally scare you, because the chaser effect is not to be underestimated ;) Nevertheless, just keep going, man, day by day. Don't worry about your streak too much. You're doing awesome :)
     
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  7. Im at the same place, its always really rough for me around month 3-4. Like my justifications of "oh i never was that bad anyway," somehow makes it alright. What, do we need to get to a point where we're hopelessly addicted and lose everything around us? God. Sometimes i baffle even myself with my hypocricy. I hate porn. This fucking thing is the devil man i wish it never grabbed ahold of me when i was so so young and someone would have warned me it would be a straight addiction.
     
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  8. YeetBoi21

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    It’s a funny addiction too tbh
     
  9. daymare

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    @Unhooked What about NoFap made this huge difference for you?
     
  10. Tankus

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    Totally man, no warning whatsoever. But I dont blame my younger self at all for that and you shouldn't either. And honestly this might be something I deal with for the rest of my life, and I'm ok with that man, we all deal with shit. And as far as this goes at least it's not like a heroine addiction or something. I find viewing it as such a heavy thing actually makes its pull stronger somehow. Life seems so beautiful now I'd have to be in a pretty dark place to go back i think.
    Also something I thought worth mentioning, from a habit forming guide. To make a habit really stick, make it part of your identity. Like this year I never thought I'd start running but I tried this trick and a few other habit forming tricks, and now I fuckin love running.
    I reckon that same thing can be done with porn successfully .
     
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  11. Meditation Monk

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    I have not relapsed not even once. But I decided to change my PMO goal to all the way gauge full speed ahead.
     
  12. RedeemedIowan

    RedeemedIowan Fapstronaut

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    TBH it rooms years and years of trying.. but most of that was without nofap.com
     
  13. Healed!

    Healed! Fapstronaut

    Great question. I think I have learned about addiction and its effects. I have found great advice for every stage of recovery. I have found accountability, encouragement, and challenge from other Fapstronauts. I think I was ready to recover because I was sick of my life.
     
  14. daymare

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    Thanks! Makes a lot of sense.
    I've known about the horrible effects of this (and other) addictions, for a long time. Still, I can't break free from many of them yet. I had a huge relapse yesterday, and still am relapsing today. I'm sick of my life, too - the withdrawal symptoms I get are just so, so strong. Ah well, I'll collect myself and won't give up!
     
  15. Healed!

    Healed! Fapstronaut

    Stick with it. Don’t let one day define you. All you have to do is one day and you know you can do that.
     
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  16. Westsidejimmy

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    I'm up to a lifetime of failure before I hit 90 days hard mode.
     
  17. oneotwo

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    I dont remeber.. But when i discover nofab i got 70 days ,after that during 2 mounts on and off relapsing lets say maybie 25 realpsing...Now i 88 days.

    You must know when i got the urge to m i know its just hormone and it will gone, the urge to watch p its very very low, the problem now is m, so its very importent not get in trigger by pic or even tv. Sometimes its happend to me on the social media, and i get angry tell my self now im getting upraged that do not look at tattow art;)
     
    Last edited: Oct 14, 2018
  18. Goldbergmahi

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    I relapsed due to high blood pressure and suddenly my left chest started hurting,,, before nofap my bp reading was 130/80 and after 3 months into nofap it is 160/100
     
  19. YeetBoi21

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    Yeah I deleted all porn related stuff on Reddit

    Had over 120 porn sub Reddit accounts....
     
  20. NicoRobocop

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    many times till ì've found this site, and i put togheter a strategy
     

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