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I can fap all day today...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ClaudioFFF, Jan 9, 2015.

  1. ClaudioFFF

    ClaudioFFF Fapstronaut

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    Relapsed two times today and I'm with that feeling "... Well, I just reset my counter... Why not enjoy the day..."

    What a great way to celebrate my 25 days streak... Fapped twice in less than 12 hours.

    I really need some words here...
     
  2. scotey73

    scotey73 Guest

    I did the same thing after I hit 96 days....twice in the span of 6 hours. That sudden chaser after a long streak can be a killer.

    The main thing is not to let it get you down. You're only human. But, don't waste these lapses, either. Learn from them. Take what you can from them.
     
  3. jenprochat

    jenprochat Fapstronaut

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    Don't.
    Easy to say, eh? :D Well remember, that we are not chasing numbers or days, we are rewiring our brains. And every relapse gets you back into the shitty state we all were in in the beggining. Relapsing once after 25 days is an accepteble blunder. Relapse 3 times and you are where you started :-/.
    So.. Just don't :)
     
  4. Zyzz's Witnesses

    Zyzz's Witnesses Fapstronaut

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    Binging is equal to getting a broken leg and afterwards saying ok i might as well run a marathon.No matter if you had 1-2 or even more day's streak healing has been made.. just man up about it.



    Stay safe,
    Zyzz's Witnesses
     
  5. akec007

    akec007 Fapstronaut

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    But you learned something during those 25 days. It's like quitting smoking. Even if you slip a cigarette a few days after quitting, don't give up, it was just a cigarette, but you are still on your path to a better you. A bump on the road and keep moving forward.
     
  6. BackcountryCamping

    BackcountryCamping Fapstronaut

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    Each hour... Each minute... Each Second is independent of each other. Just because you reset your counter it doesn't mean that day is shot. It just means that minute is shot. Every hour you are clean is part of the battle. So don't look at it as being able to "fap all day today" , almost as a reward. Learn what triggered it , put checks in place so it doesn't happen again, reset your counter, pick yourself up and start your journey again.
     
  7. FapOut

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    Well that's not very pleasant, but hey! You already went 25 days why not do it again?
    The battle is still going on and you need to win it against this addiction.
    Try reading some more articles about porn and get the right mindset to fight it stronger this time.
    Try making a plan for when urges strike again so you wouldn't fall for them anymore, and if you ever relapse again don't take it as a day off, start again and don't worry. Good luck :)
     
  8. ClaudioFFF

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    Hey guys, thanks very very much for all the words of support and encouragement.

    I learned a lot in these 25 days and I know that I can do it again. I can do more, much more!

    I don't faped again and I'm back to the challenge again. I felt depressed, but now things are going better and I'll not give up.

    Thanks again. All of you were very important to me today.

    Let's stay clean.
     
  9. blockydude

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    Dont fap multiple times after a relapse as that can damage the recovering proccess.
     
  10. jenprochat

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    Great job Claudio!
    Keep up the optimism and remember - you are not starting from scratch and if you don't relapse again, this day was just a minor setback.
     
  11. ClaudioFFF

    ClaudioFFF Fapstronaut

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    Everything started here after I read a post and get curious about one kind of behavior of other guy... Then I searched at Google, after I was searching girls pics, then girls videos at YouTube and then my favorite P site...

    That process need to be stopped at the very beginning. And certainly I'll be much more aware the next time it starts.

    Thank you guys for the replies.
     

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